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Me and my boyfriend makeout a lot but the most he ever touches me is my upper theigh, he never goes higher then that and on my chest or my rib cage just so the tips of his fingers are touches my boob I want him to go farther but whenever I take his hand to put it there its like he doesnt get my body language how do I get him to touch me without saying it?
Wow you should be glad, sounds like you have yourself a decent guy who respects you and is obviously not just using you- sounds like a keeper to me. This is honestly a good thing, imagine if it was the opposite and he was trying to force you into things your not ready for...
In any relationship communication is key; talk to him about it, maybe he is nervous? talk to him and discuss prior how far you both are willing to go, set limits, maybe hes just not comfortable with it, and if that's the case you have to respect that and not pressure him. As said, just talk to him, if you are old enough to be doing this then surely you are old enough to be able to talk to each other about it...
One way to do this is the playful way, like saying that your chest is feeling hot can you feel it to see if its over heating, ect. or if you start to be more touchy with him than he might with you( he might have jsut been nervous or unsure)
anyways, if you got any other questions just ask; L
well since you helped me ill help u...u know how im 1) and shes 13, well hes 17 and your 14 so im telling you that part is so nervous ya know. like he doesnt wanna hurt you and I dn wanna hurt her...so maybe just time will help...
Do not hesitate to tell him where you need his touch. There is nothing bad in it.
I'm the same way me myself is just a little scared not sure what to do
your 14 you shouldn't even be doing that
