anyone got any good advice for a good kisser?

go with what feels good sweetie. don’t feel like you have to be the perfect kisser right off. go slow. just feel your way thru it. he might try to open your mouth a bit, and if you want, let him do the figuring out. sometimes its easiest that way. Or you can try a lot of little kisses first, teasing him a bit, try tickling his lips with your tongue, or just open your mouth a little and see what he does first…

it’s hard explaining something that normally comes from your instinct…there’s not much of a instruction manual for kissing. but don’t eat garlic…or something else that’s going to leave a heavy taste in your mouth. go with water, or a light juice…like apple. Brush your teeth like crazy and rinse your mouth with mouth wash. Really make sure your mouth is clean.

as a side note, maybe you should ask what do with your hands…

no I don’t mean anything dirty. I’ll admit the very first time I kissed a guy, like when I was…I dunno…16 or so…I had no idea where to put my hands, until I felt his wrap around my waist. So as a reminder on that note…be gentle and slow. Don’t go for the lower regions…stick with anything above the waist. sometimes I put my hands on his chest, or wrap my arms loosely around his neck…

have fun…and remember, kissing is supposed to be pleasant…not a contest. just enjoy it, okay? and if you screw up..or you think you screw up…giggle and tell him “I would like to try again.” with a sense of humor of course…I don’t think he’ll object.