me and my boyfriend have been togther for about 2 years we have been havin sex for a while I just dont no how to really pleasure him???
You're WAY too young to have se at age 13 or 14. You should take your time and grow up first and THEN have sex. . .
Can you answer a question for me? Why do girls have sex that young? I know you'll probably say ''But I'm mature for my age'' or ''My boyfriend and I truly love each other''. Well you can show each other how much you love each other, other than physically. You can have A LOT of fun together WITHOUT sexual activity. At such a young age, a relationship is stronger and will definitley last longer without sexual activity. I mean, it MIGHT be okay if you were about maybe 17+. That;s when I think it's okay to start THINKING about having sex.
Just try to slow things down a little bit, and take things one step at a time. And also, think about the consequences and responsibilities.
You can get STD'S. There are a lot of diseases you can get from having sex that young when you really don't know the consequences.
You can get pregnant. And just THINK about how hard that would be if you;re 13 or 14 years. old. It would be hard enough if you were 24+ but just imagine how hard it would be when you're as young as you are. Have you really thought about that consequence? And I know what you're probably thinking, you're thinking that if you're using protection then you can't get pregnant. Well, the condom can break. You can accidentally forget to take a birth control pill. There is ALWAYS, I repeat ALWAYS that risk. There's no way around it.
You just should've waited. You should;ve waited until you were a lot older when you understand your body and yourself a lot more.Also you should've waited because you would've been able to give your virginity to a person who you really love and respect. And who really loves and respects you. And once again, you're just too young. At that age, you should be worrying about things like, what time the mall closes, not the possibility of being pregnant. Please, just take your time and grow up, then have sex.
It is not uncommon for a couple engaging in pre-marital sex to become obsessed with sex, which comes at the purpose of every other area of their life, including educational and family relationships. Most of their thoughts and activities then become sexually focused.
When you place sex as the determining factor of the relationship, it will probably result in poor sex. Think about it. If you put your sexual relationship under a microscope, always judging it and judging the relationship by it, it's doomed to fail. It's like being in prison. You're locked in to something that is supposed to be freeing, not incapacitating.
Sex before marriage ruins the other parts of the relationship.
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"My boyfriend and I"
Anyhow, usually it is the male who should worry about how to pleasure his female.
Don't worry about his pleasure. If its soft, wet, and warm, it's good for any man.
Just keep it safe(condom) and enjoy the simple things, such as the soft touch of each others skin, or the warm, slow, sensual kisses. ( I don't sound like the typical DUDE but when it comes to this subject, I'm somewhat of an expert )
And please don't refer to it as "havin sex", It's "making love". Slow your movements down and take in everything around you. Romanticize your every move.
Well I look at it this way, if this girl is already sexually active and seeking advice, theres nothing we can say to reverse her decisions. All we can do is make some mild, mature replies to push her or any other young person to at least practice safe sex. It is a shame that people are starting younger and younger, but look at Maine, suggesting passing out condoms to 11 year olds in school. Theres no way to stop kids from doing this, just a way to make sure they are going to be safe when they do decide to start.
You've been together since you were 12? First of all, 12 yr olds dont need to be seriously dating. Your parents dont have a problem with this? Do you even have girlfriends?
Is there a reason why you need to act like your married? Wait untill your an adult to start doing adult things! Hormones take over when your in puberty, its not love!
Get a life outside of your boyfriend, because when things end, (which they will) who will you have to turn to?
If the s*x is not a pleasure for him I think you should not deal with the question. Then let him to pleasure himself.
We can't reverse her decisions, but we can make her feel bad. It's fun.
well it is I just want to know if it can be better..