Another boy crisis!

Ok so I’m “talking” to my ex boyfriend and have been talking to him for the past 8 months. He hasn’t made the leap to commit and that sorta causes problems with us. I’ve been hanging out with my friends a lot lately and there is this one guy I’ve had a crush on since high school that I’ve been talking to. We never gotta chance to move forward because either he’s had a girlfriend or I’ve had a boyfriend. Now were both single but my ex is sorta in the background. Should I stay talking to my ex like I have been for the past 8 months or should I move on and try something new?

Answer #1

Move on!! You’re ex should stay that..you’re ex..I understand that after more than 8 months you’re going to feel attached to him..but just ask yourself is tehre any sort of future or do you just want to go on…talking…to your ex for the next 8 months or till he finds someone else? besides someone new can be exciting and different..just think of the statr of the relationship and the fun you can have with this new guy rather than the worries of your ex!!

Answer #2

What does “talking” to your ex have anything to do with meeting new people? Hes an ex for a reason, and its someone you shouldnt be looking to get back with since things didnt work out the first time. Move on, and spread your wings. Stop living in the past.

Answer #3

I completely agree with rachel_lee, it is time to move on. You never know what could be out there waiting for you. And if you and your ex are meant to be together, than you will but, there is no reason you should let your life pass you by while he makes up his mind what he wants. Good luck to you.

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