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3sums
okay well im 17 and my boyfriend and me have been datin awhile and he wants to have a 3sum, he says he loves me but he asks about when me and him can have one ALL the time and I dont think he know how much that hurts me. Why would he want this? Is he bored of me?
Its every guys fantasy, but most guys DONT act on their fantasies. He obviously isnt thinking about your feelings, only himself. If this isnt something you want to do, TELL HIM! I have seen relationships who have had 3-somes, break down. What I tell every girl who comes here asking this question…>Tell him that you will, but only if its with TWO guys! Then tell him if he doesnt stop asking, you’ll look for someone who wants YOU, and only you!
Guys often fantasize about doing these things. its normal. If you’re not comfortable with it, just tell him.
my boyfriend has the same exact fantasy and asks me almost everyday when we can have one, and it really hurts me too! it makes me feel like, he isnt happy with me, and wants to be with someone else, and it gets me really upset. I completely understand where you’re coming from and a good solution is really just talk to him about it, like I just sat my boyfriend down and let him know that it made me really upset, even thinking about him being with another girl, even if it was with me too and that although that was his fantasy, that it really hurt my feelings and I wasnt comfortable doing it. if you’re boyfriend cares about your opinion and how you feel, he will most likely drop it, good luck! (:
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