1st time guilt

I feel guilty after fingering my gf for the 1st time. is this normal? i am with her because i love her, not because i want to have sex.

Answer #1

If she agreed it is not normal. If you forced it, it is normal because that was a (small?) guilt.

Answer #2

If she enjoyed it, and you were both comfortable in the situation, you have nothing to feel guilty about it. People who love eachother do these things and when they do it’s understood why, she knows you care for her so don’t worry about it!

Answer #3

We were making out on the couch and i got carried away… but i stopped myself before things got out of hand. We are quite young, myself being 16 and she 14. And please don’t try to say that it’s OK for us to have sex – i have a future ahead of me, i don’t want to screw it up.

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