When going through relationships, not everyone is meant to be with you, and so it’s important to watch out for what you might want in the long- term.
If you find the person your'e dating doesn’t have very likable friends, it’s possible they will sooner become one as well. It’s proven that you are the product of the five people you hang out with the most. Even if the person seems different to their friends now, it might be a persona to impress you.
Eventually, it will wear off eventually revealing their similarities to their unfavorable friends.
The way your partner or crush treats other people is very important to note. Specifically people in jobs and fields below them, such as cleaners, cashiers or waiters. A way to understand how they treat people like that is to see how they might behave when present by a waiter.
If they are rude or judgmental, it may not be a good sign for you.
As it will show what you might be treated like in the future, being long enough with them.
If your interest tells you in confidence things about others they promised to keep secret, it may be a red flag.
At the moment it may feel special that they would confide in you of others trusted secrets, but you must note that they weren’t loyal to keeping it silent.
If they are willing to tell others personal secrets, then what might stop them from eventually telling others yours?
People who might live most of their life on social media may not be the most healthy people to be around.
Their life may seem in the beginning as almost a fantasy, but it could be drastically different when having to spend real life with them.
They may spend too much time on social media itself while secluding themselves from others including yourself.
If the person your interest has no long-lasting relationships it might be of concern. Yes, it is possible that many ties have been cut due to problems that could have run through family and friends.
If the situation seems to be that they run through friends and loving relationships very quickly, they may be the leading thread to this.
You might also become one of the short time relationships if you are not careful with the person.
If your interest speaks badly on every single relationship, you might need to look into their morals.
Even in one-sided relationship problems, you choose to stay in that relationship, so in some part you are responsible.
If the person can look back or reflect on what they may have done wrong in any of their breakups, then there’s a chance they will say the same about you.
If people can’t take responsibility or realize their faults, then they are not self-aware which can become a bad habit throughout life.
Looking at your interest in a beautiful almost God-like way may seem reasonable but is in fact unhealthy. It means your almost living through fantasy or thought of them, and this could lead to problems down the road as you get to know them.
When you already build up an image of a person without truly knowing their colors, it might be disappointing when they don’t match up to your head’s standards.
The space between where fantasy falls and crushes below reality is certainly painful. They may not be able to deal with problems and situations as you may hope.