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Should i go out with this 21-year-old?

Asked by woody over 2 years ago, 8 answers.

I am 14 and in the summer this guy asked me out who is 21 at first i didnt no wot to say but in the end i said yes after a few weeks i started to fall for him and he said he loved me btu he dumped me coz of me bro i didnt hear from him for a few weeks...

then we started talkin again and gettin close again and the way he is actin now is the way he acted b4 if i am wif a m8 who is a guy he cant stop lookin at me and stuff like that.
but i dont no wot to do if he askes me out again and what to do about still like in him?

Answered by mrsexguy on Oct 15, 2007, 03:37PM
19 answers

Dont be with that man. Any man who goes out with a girl that young when he is that old is sick. The call men like that pedophiles hon. He just wants to keep you around as his little play toy to use as he pleases. Please please dont be with him in any way.

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Answered by psychx on Oct 14, 2007, 08:37AM
13 answers

He is in lust with you, which could be seriously Baddd!!!

Discuss this situation with your parents.

Answered by soccerjess14 on Oct 14, 2007, 09:42AM
43 answers

well i dont know if u want my opinion or not but i had something like that happen to me this summer i rlly liked him he asked me out things were good but if u do want to b with this guy u should b careful cuz if the wrong person finds out he could end up going to jail so b careful who u tell if u like this guy age doesnt matter!

Answered by underwaterophelia on Oct 14, 2007, 09:50AM
1843 answers

If you guys really care for each other, you'll both wait to be together until you're at the VERY least 17. At this point, he'll go to jail for being with you.

Answered by freckles290 on Oct 14, 2007, 11:20AM
3 answers

he is way too old for you all you want to the alchol

Answered by funadvice on Oct 14, 2007, 03:26PM
53906 answers

There is a big difference between 14 and 21, but there is less of a difference between 17 and 24 and even less of a difference between 21 and 28 and almost no difference between 43 and 50. If you REALLY love (not like- but LOVE) him, and if he loves you you'll both wait. Until then, make sure that you get your parents involved.

Answered by funadvice on Oct 14, 2007, 07:07PM
53906 answers

He doesn't love you, he just wants sex, and he's way too old. Drop him, move on, stop dating old guys...

Answered by wudafxup1213 on Oct 30, 2007, 09:09PM
21 answers

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