Why does my mom watch over me and tell my dad everything?

im 14 and my mom is getting into my stuff this morning I was going to school I wanted to wear some jeans and some cute shoes but every time I leaving she has to wake up and tell me you re not wearing that so she has to talk loud so my dad can come I...

hate this everything she say I have to do it like if im kind of puppy ,okay look I have to wear uniform to school but I got tried and I tell is only going to be 2 weeks everything I do it bad I think in 4 more year im going to live by myself do I really have to everything she wants

My mom does that sometimes. I think it's so she feels powerful.... Sometimes, I am scared of my dad, but I do what I want and if they hit me, I make them feel bad about it, so try it out!!!!

Dear baba,
Well first of all she tells you, you can't wear that because you can't. If you wear uniforms at school then that's what you need to be wearing??? If your mother speaks very loud so your father will hear it is because she may be thinking you won't listen to her but you will listen if your father is aware of the problem. When you break the rules then what you do is bad to them. Follow the rules and you may find that there isn't so many problems. I can understand how your parents feel if you can't follow a simple rule like wearing your uniform to school when those are the school rules. How can they think you'll follow other rules??? Time to be responsible. If you find some rules just impossible to handle then you sit with your parents and discuss it.
Sue...good luck

well if you have to wear something to school then wear what the school is making you wear it sounds like you are just breaking the rule and she does not want you to get into trouble..if your father is involved that is good parents should both be in their kids lives. i know that it mostly seems like they are just being picky and or strict but it is for your own good..lol it is kind of funny you saying in just four years you are on your own I was alot like that when i was your age i am seventeen now almost 18 and I don't live with my family I am about 3,00 miles away from them actully and you know what I wish all the time that they where still here to tell me what to do because I don't always know what is best and for some reason they always seemed to know what was better even if i did not agree..you may not understand what I am saying but one day you will..don't grow up to fast enjoy being a child while you can and you may think you want to make your own choices but it is not all that easy. Life gets harder not easier.

why she tells your dad. is because shes afraid your judgement will win so she needs backup. my mom does that too