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Okay well 2day was me & my boyfriends one year annivesiry and I tought it was gunna be so special but da thing is we are long distance and like we get along everyday and well he chooses today to be a total a$$ I mean seriously he was yelling and b!tching at me I mean I was crying thw whole time he just didn't notice he was too caught up with himself & I just couldn't take it & I hungup I mean I'm still cryin like crazy because I mean I had my hopes up for something that wasn't there he made me feel like total trash like if he just didn't care I mean I was so confused because yesterday & this morning we were so excited but guess he was just faking it I wish I could just fast foward tonight because 2nite is a nite I don't want to remember why do you think he was acting like this?I just don't get it!!!
I'm sorry to hear about how he acted on your anniversary...us girls specially know that that date is supposed to be special, even if your apart. I have no idea why he would act like that but don't take it personally. I'm just guessing here, 'cause I don't know exactly what happened; but if it makes you feel better it is very probable that he had a really bad day and add it up to the fact that he misses you terribly and that he just wants to be with you in this special day more than anything. he must have channeled his frustration towards the wrong direction and that's all. so don't get angry at him and don't get upset about something that may be worthless getting upset about and give him a chance to explain. I'm sure he'll come around in no time..! hope it helped =)
hey dear if he havent called you up you call him up. I know you will be angry but it seems you love him a lot so why not giving it a try call him up and politely ask whats the matter. sometimes people go through mood swings and dont know hoe to react maybe something of that sort happened with him. if yell at you again than you just say him that you love him and you were concerned thats why even being hurt you called him up and hung up. when he will rethink what he did he will understand his mistakes.
Thank you so much for the advice but like how can I not be angry at him??he knew how special this was to me espcially it being with him he knows that I love him and he didn't even bother to call back or anything he didn't do sh!t and its really upsetting because he made me feel really bad he got mad about the stupidest things I mean seriously?but thanks I just don't know if I'll be able to get over this soon
if you aren't married anniversaries aren't that damn important, contrary to /popular/ belief