Why don't my parents just let me go out?

My parents just sometimes not fair at all. Like there is this teen night club that everyone goes to and I wanted to go out there just once. They kept telling me no. So I went behind there back to do it is that right.??? someone help

parents are sheap your at the age where they'll try to control you the most. they can't stop you from doing it but give them a good reason to let you go like i don't know voulenteer to cook dinner keep yuor grades high and then it could help. and whats gone and done is in the past don't sweat it.

Behind their back is definately not right and could be dangerous.....they are responsible for you and may have more information than you are aware of about this place.....ask them.

my parents are overprotective as well. if they continue to say no, the answer is no. dont push it and get into trouble. it sucks. maybe start being extra good and do unnecessary things around the house and ask.

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You may be having this problem for the folowing reasons, also I hope you enjoy my help, and rate my advice, Thank you very much, and enjoy the help below!
-There not over protective at all, they may have reasons that you may not be aware of, like alcohal and drugs, and sex, you should not have sneaked out at all, sometimes we need to think how much we have if we can go to lpaces like parties, I;m sure they love you very very much, and care for you, sometimes, we need to thank them, and repect that their decisions are best at heart.
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-Phil2611

Did you know that your parents weren't always parents, and they have been your age? And they might know a thing or two about it? They are protecting you from things they learned, the hard way. Take their advice and experience as tools you can use to avoid making mistakes in life. Some of them are good to make, because we learn from them. But lying and being dishonest are not the way to go about it. Ever. You want them to trust you - but you must earn that trust first. Show them you will abide by their wishes because you value their opinion, and eventually they'll let out a little more rope. Just remember - once we get the rope we thought we wanted - we often hang ourselves with it! Don't be in a hurry to grow up, it's not all that fun.

Meg ;-)

i go behind my parents back all the time
its not the right thing to do
the right thing to do is compromise
but unlike my parents your might acturarly listen
if they dont
stuff them
thats all i can say

I have the same problem, only I'm 19 years old! ill start college in the fall, so THANK GOD ill be out of the house. my parents have been crazy overprotective strict, i havent even been able to stay at a friends house lately cuz they think we're gonna go off and hang out with guys. let me tell u, some parents can NEVER let go of their kids, so just hang in there, U WILL have all the freedom in the world sooner than u know it.

that is not right,at all what so ever! going behind there backs isn't right and if something happend to you you would be in even more trouble since you lied. if they cant trust you then they definetly will continue to tell you no. try being honest and good things happen. im a good kid my mom lets me do basicly whatever. they obviously told you know for a reason. it may be money issues or they dont feel comfortable letting there daughter go somewere there not familiar with. put yourself in there shoes and think what you would tell your kid if they asked you that. they were your age once to and they know what goes on . there not s stupid as people think they are im 14 and my moms 32 even my gma whos 52 knows.