Why doesn't my boyfriend like taking me ar0und friends & family?

0k me & my boyfriend been together f0r 3 years n0w…but theres something thats always been bothering me like some of his family members d0n’t like me…there’s his aunts that always give me dirty l00ks, his c0usins that talk shyt t0 me 0ver myspace. His dad that never liked me since the beginning, his sister that called me a stupid wanna be gangster which I am n0t n0 gangster, his m0m thats helled at me al0t 0f times & she even t0ld me that its my fault f0r her s0ns anger pr0blems…and I kn0w that is s0 n0t true because it d0esn’t matter h0w mad you get a guy, they aint suppose to hit a girl! Right?!? Anyways after 3 years he never takes me 0ut, just t0 the m0vies never t0 parties 0r anything, and he kn0ws I like t0 party! He never invites me anywhere when he kn0ws I wanna g0. And everytime we make plans t0gether and s0mething c0mes up like a friend askes him t0 chill that same day we make plans he always leaves me and expects me t0 be 0k with it! And 0n t0p 0f that is it 0k 4 a b0yfriend t0 leave like f0r days and get n0 ph0ne call fr0m him 0r anything and then c0me t0 your h0use whenever he pleases and expects me t0 be h0me! I d0n’t kn0w what t0 d0 with him I l0ve him al0t but I d0n’t want him t0 think he has me just f0r a girl t0 g0 h0me t0 4 sex 0r when he has n0thing t0 d0!!! Please help what sh0uld I d0???