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Why do i want a baby?

Me surfing in Oahu Asked by oceanh3ro about 1 year ago, 11 answers.

Ha I know that sounds weirdd and no I'm not trying to get pregnant. I feel like there is something missing though, and I see all these people with their kids and all these teens having babies and it just makes me want one more. I'll walk past a baby...

store and I have to go in. I've had two miscarriages, both accidents (one condom broke, other the pill didn't work), in the past and it gets to me. I just want a baby to hold, love, feed, change it's dipers, it just all sounds so perfect and life completing to me. I know I could handle one and so does my mom but I am waiting til I'm at least 22. Ha Why is this though?

No stupid answers, I'm not trying to get pregnant.

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me and my boyfreind :] Answered by jazlovestoskate on May 08, 2008, 09:17PM
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perhaps you feel like you havent accomplished anything? maybe...im not sure
what your feeling is normal
and if you feel like youd love to have a baby then thats great!
but its nice that you want to wait a bit more
its up to you when to have it, but id say when you feel ready, go for it
it sounds like its something that would kind of make all your problems go away,
and make you really happy
in the meantime perhaps you could hang around some other mothers, and make freinds with them
get to know how to take care of one, and how other women take care of theres
it would be a great learning experience as well
so get clued up as much as you can vefore you do have one!

Not nice to laugh at other's short comings Answered by ethmer on May 08, 2008, 09:47PM
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It could be that your changing hormones and emotions are creating this desire.

I'm glad you are choosing to wait until at least 22 before you have a child.

You need to obtain as great an education as possible before you take on the task of becoming a mother. And it will be a task. You will have little time for you because the child's needs and wants come first.

Enjoy your life, your freedom now while you are young, able and unsaddled by adult responsibilities.

 

teddy! Answered by nuffnuffmoo on May 08, 2008, 11:29PM
51 answers

I want a baby too... I'm 22 now, but the fact is it's not a rational decision to have a child until you are able to provide for yourself, and then be able to provide even more for someone else.

When you think about wanting a baby, think about the negative effects... 9 months of pregnancy? What other people think of a young girl who's pregnant? The screaming, whining, pooping, pissing, vomiting, no sleeping and no social life.

Want a baby now?

how do i look? Answered by ameena on May 09, 2008, 01:51AM
298 answers

it's just a feeling.. sometimes I too feel I want a baby but I hate thinking that I am pregnant

how do i look? Answered by ameena on May 09, 2008, 01:56AM
298 answers

it's just a feeling.. sometimes I too feel I want a baby but I hate thinking that I am pregnant

i <3 HK Answered by drop_d3ad_g0r930u5 on May 09, 2008, 03:37AM
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I want a baby as well. I think maybe its because you want to be a rolemodel or you want to look after a child. I dont know but I know its perfectly natural to want a baby.

New pic of me Answered by imme on May 09, 2008, 05:35AM
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it's normal!!
you like babies!! and you want a baby who's YOURS!! your own baby!
I feel this way too!! you want to hold him, feed him, love him, you want to be a mother, or you just lovee babies!!
I think that all females and some males want babies!!
nobody hates babies!! I hope! lol

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on May 09, 2008, 08:26PM
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There adorable untill you have one. theres no handing the baby back when you want to go out, you can forget about dating and dont get me started on the changes it makes to your body. if your willing to give up your life and your finances for the next 18 years plus, then go for it! obviously something is missing from your life, maybe travelling. you really should do it now before its too late. enjoy your life before you give it to someone else

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on May 10, 2008, 10:02AM
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I think it might be because you haven't done anything amazing in your life (well, I don't know of you have, just a suggestion!!) and raising a child is one of the greatest things you could do in your life, you can raise it to be the next president, make the next great invention, etc., it's awesome that you want to wait until you're 22, you're really smart and I'm sure when you do have a baby, he or she will be the next big ___ (whatever they want to be!!)

I love that picture of me Answered by tinkerbell90194 on May 11, 2008, 06:36PM
44 answers

if you want to wait til your 22 try babysitting or if your old enough a nanny

Me Answered by jadeey353 on May 28, 2008, 04:34PM
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I want a baby to but im not ready for one and I know that. I plan on waiting but if it was normal for me to have one now I would. maybe you feel like a baby would complete you and you want some to hold and love and care for but what my mom told me when I told her that I want a baby. she said in my opinion start with a puppy and work your way up

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