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Why can't I get over him?

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I had a guy friend who is no longer a friend because things weren't working out. It was a really an unhealthy friendship because he was going off to college, he wanted more than a friendship (sex), and he says I freak out or get mad to much. I did apologize to him about getting mad and freaking out. Only to see if we could work things out but he doesn't want to so its impossible to be just friends again. Its been almost a month to just trying to get over him. But I find myself overly obsessing at night about him. During the day I have no issues and I'm happy but at night I start thinking about him. Almost every night I find myself crying over old memories of him. Then I start having dreams that are a little different setting but have the same meaning. In the dream somewhere he is there and when I try coming up to talk to him he just turns his head and ignores me or walks away. This dream happens almost every night and its just getting old. I want to get over him and I'm fine during the day but at night I just can't get my mind off of him. Please help