Why are moms mean ?

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Today I had a grate day at school and everything it was really fun , but then it was at home when things went terribly wrong, why? Because …i don’t know actually, my mom just was mad and when she is mad nothing can calm...

her down…
This is what happened:
I got home happily like always , well most of the time. I went to the kitchen said hi to everyone , and ate a quesadilla and cake, next I reminded my mother that today was the talent show practice, she said…oh good because im coming , I told her not to , and she started yelling , saying that she thought was embarrassed of her and asking me why… I told her that I was not embarrassed of her it’s just that it’s not cool…who takes their parents all over??? No one my age . Truth is, she thinks im still like 5 or something , why cant she understand that I grew up!!!? And that im not a little girl any more ,and that im a good girl im not like the other stupid dumb ass girls that get themselves wasted and stuff, my mom does not get it. I love her but she still does not understand … it is so frustrating !!! I hate it ! I do everything , I clean , I do good at school , I take stuff seriously, I play the violin, and I go to chorus at church ( I don’t like chorus!!!) , that I do because she forces me to, well basically . See I even do more ! And then I want to do the stupid talent show and she wont let me , I don’t know what other way to convince her, I don’t! She does not trust in me! I don’t know what other way to show her that im not how she thinks I am ! I need help, she is so stubborn , no one can make her realize, that is horrible. I cried , yeah of anger and at the same time sadness , both. I personally think my mom has been drinking to much wine and that kills her nice brain cells , because there is no other reason why she is like that , she used to be cool.
Anyway then I came home and she forced me into doing chores , she told me that if I wanted her to be mean she would be and , what I said was I don’t want you to be mean , I want you to be nice , why did you change so fast? She got pissed off and started yelling and telling me that I had no reason to be talking and that all I did was go out since I was in middle school, that’s funny because I don’t go out except for the practices and to my friends houses (rarely to my friends houses), im telling you she wants me to be like her pet and she exaggerates for everything! And she took my cell phone! The worst part is that I have to live with it I have to keep my stupid feelings inside I cant take them out, and my mom laughs at me when I cry she enjoys seeing me suffer, and my dad supports her, she is evil , I don’t know why…i don’t know what to do!!!
I don’t know
I don’t know
I don’t know!!!
This is what I think:
All she wants to do is embarrass me ! And make me look bad but it is not going to work because my friends don’t care and I am not going to keep crying and making her make victory, I wont ! She is so mean! That will be the best choice ,although I will have to keep keeping my feelingsl

Analysis:

thats just parents.

if it all started because you did not want her to go to a talent show.. I can understand why she was so mad.. All parents want to see there children accomplish something and all children want to see there parents proudly looking up at them.. But I dont see why she would laugh at you while your crying or take your cell phone away.. I dont really have an advice for you sorry but my mom was never mean to me or anything..

Umm all I can say is that your mom has problems...

look your growing up. your not going to be moms little baby anymore. do you know how hard that is for her? you have to remember that she just wants to watch you do this one thing so she can have that memory before you leave her. if she dose start yelling at you just take a deep breath and say mom just relax I try really hard to make the right decisions and I love you but just calm down alright okay mom I love you then maybe give her some space now your dad he realy has no clue what to do so he just follows along with your mother.

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I think that you should call a family meeting. You can pull out a stick and say this is the talking stick. Anyone who talks without the stick has to do a punishment. Say no yelling either.. Then share all of your feelings. Then give your mom the stick and let her share her feelings.

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Start a journal with your mom. It is easier to write it then to say it.
Good luck!