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Mom is mean

Asked by nonsense 3 months ago, 6 answers.
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How come everytime my brother gets in trouble mymom blames it on me???

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Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Jun 13, 2008, 01:10PM
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I'm guessing your older?
Probably because you have more responsibility than him and she expects you to know what to do better than he does.
Unfortunately, I have no clue how to go about fixing that.
Good luck!

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Answered by nonsense on Jun 13, 2008, 01:14PM
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Thanks!

Let's start over... My name's Julie. Answered by xxjulixx on Jun 13, 2008, 01:24PM
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Yeah so if you're the older child you are always given the responsiblity of looking after the siblings that are younger then you. Siblings gain their personalities and qualities from their environment which also includes the people that they interact with. Your mom probably wants you to take care of your brother and make sure that he doesn't do anythng wrong. You're just naturally supposed to look after him I guess. And so if he does anything wrong it's because you weren't watching to stop him, and your mother probably wanted you to.

Carol 14 Answered by katwoman on Jun 13, 2008, 01:52PM
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It was that way in my family. My Mom always took up for my brother and my Dad sided with me (that's what I heard anyway). Maybe she's not blaming it on you as much as she is just siding with him.
But, I know, it may as well be the same through your eyes. Sometimes that's the way life is and though we don't like it, it happens and we just have to deal with it as well as we can.

Thunder Robot Answered by funadvice on Jun 13, 2008, 06:00PM
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I'm not sure why that happens.
But, it sounds like whenever your brother gets in trouble and your mom takes it out on you, that's sounds pretty odd. Maybe your mom shows allot of favoritism for some reason.
Maybe you have a brother that tells on you just like one of my sisters of my own family. If you don't feel welcomed and your mom continues to be mean to you, then I would recomend seeing if you can talk to other relatives. If you go to church, I would also recomend talking to your Pastor or other church members.
Every one of us needs support and people that can love respect, and care for us. I can give you one example, in my church, everyone really loves, respects, and cares for me. They are my family since not only my own mother is mean to me, but, my whole family.
Your mom shouldn't yell at you when your brother gets in trouble which doesn't make any sense. So, please!! see if you can get support from others.

Answered by libbie on Jun 14, 2008, 12:41AM
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You know I grew up almost in the same invironment were my family were always mad and never gave me credit for much but my big mistake was I started to hang around with a bad crowd and that really messed me up so I just wanted to say dont make that mistake maybe you can get involved in something after school progams or sports and if you have a good church you go to get involved there. prayer is good to God will listen but dont expect miracles over night be patient. and stay away from bad company.

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