why am I not good at talking?

Ok so I’ve been dating my guy for like a month now but we were talking way before that and im so terrible at talking over the phone, sometimes we talk and keep a good conversation going but then other times its silent but in person were never silent and always have fun I dont know if bugs him that I dont like to talk over the phone but I do feel bad. just to me its not the same as in person and I feel kinda stupied over the phone mabe its because sometimes I get nervous to be my self because I like to be funny but I still kinda hold it in because what if I do something stupid…ahhh jjjeeezzz I feel stupid

Answer #1

I think you have some inferiority showing,

Answer #2

Those awkward silent moments happen to all of us. If it bugs you that much than you can have topics prepared.

Answer #3

It’s okay I’m like this to, but eventually you learn that it’s all good. Just be yourself who cares if you do something stupid? he’s your boyfriend hes suppose to accept you for who you are. Flaws and all. Just like you are suppose to do for him. Just relax. Silences are okay! Your bound to have them on the phone everyone does..

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