Why do people get off on useing, abuseing and hurting people?

Why do people get off on useing, abuseing and hurting people?
I dont see it nor do I understand...
Is it really that hard to be faithful?
Why cant people just mean what they say?

good question steph! A+!! ahah
yeah peopel may be sick.. just cruel, proabbaly because they have a wicked plan in there heads.. all they plan is wicked. they are juss mean that way.
probably because theyve had some thing bad happen to them in life and they juss carry on that grudge juss being unfaithful and hurtin the innocent- those people are the sick ones and need help.
but remmeber this: this world is full of good AND evil.
examples: evil by having someone close to you die.. that is when you discover badness exists.
Good when a miracle happens, something amazing or something that touched you soo much likee..getting out of school or sumthin!! lol but you know??

you WILL ALWAYS find mean unfaithful peopel...but thats what makes us stronger and stuff you know steph!
hope that helped luv!

hmm, that's a loaded question, hunn. and one that not even till the end of time will someone have an answer for . :/ sad, ain't it ?? :[

thats a crazy question well in my opinon I woukd say people who do those things are just sick. maybe they have a deasies or something but it doesnt make I tok for them to do that

people dont realize what they have till its gone.
sum people dont realize that you would do anything for them all you ask for in return is to b a good true friend. its sad...and really unfortunate because you are a true friend and an amazing person. you have my friendship any day of the week. =) pinky promice.lol.
it may not replace what ever retard hurt you and lost you as a friend or more but I will b there for u...sum people do care Stephie. =)

I agree with you..but I kinda cant answer that becus I still have to figure itout myself

There will always be people who are self-centered... and there will never be a good reason for their behavior.

But ultimately YOU decide what kind of people you associate with. There ARE good sincere people out there, you just have to search for them.

I never been in a relationship...but I dont get it either..maybe they just so confuse inside in relationships...they dont know what they want...but as some say...what goes around,comes around...and I dont want that happening to me..

They might not intend to hurt people. That's usually the case. Perhaps these people have problems of their own?
Remember that nobody is perfect and even the ones who hurt others are still people too. The people who lash out are the ones who need help the most.