Was it a one night stand?

me and my best fren recently became really good frens wit these boys frm v.I boys school. we started hanging out a lot. its almost been 5 months since we started hanging out. well its usually 5 guys and 4 of us girls, but most of the time its just me and my bestfren. ok my bestfren is marz. marz had a thing wit erik and now dats over. ernie had a thing wit farooq, dats over too because farooq is with atique in a serious reltnshp. and thrs me and joe. we made out once before and he is most touchy with me. when we made out the 1st time, I was a bit high under the influence of alchohol. but I know for sure what happen, because I was quite sober. he didnt drink at all. then the 2nd time we were both drinkin at my hse. but the thing was we both drank really little before the guys fnshd it. we strtd makin out when we high again. but then we stoped for about an hour. I fell asleep and he played ps2 with the othrs. den aftwrd we went in2 my room and strtd makin out. I'm still a virgin you see. and I hv nvr done anytin besides making out. but that night he fingered me. I enjoyed it dats for sure. its been 4 days since and he still havent msgd or called me. the last time we did it, he msgd me 1st asking and talkin bout it. but dis time I hvnt heard a thing. I asked farooq to ask joe, and farooq told me joe said that he was drunk! thats bullsh*t. because the vodka bottle was small and we all shared it btwn 7 people. and the alcholol level in the vodka was only 5%. but all the guys say that he has the biggest ego among them. so pls tell me wth is wrong with joe?! I mean we were really good frens. I dun want it to be awkward. and p.s. I do like him, and he did say he liked me, and so did the guys.

I agree with mr_smedheader, please use proper spelling and english!

Anyways>If these boys were just good friends, you should have left it that way! Why do girls think that just because they let a guy do stuff to them, the guy is suppose to act like he likes them, and call them like they are going out or something? Your not in a relationship with him, so he doesnt owe you anything. If you want to put out without being in a committed relationship, you have to expect to get used!!

I believe that is was very slutty of you to get yourself in that situation, and allow him to do that to you, if you didnt underastand the terms of the encounter. This soiunds to me like az one night friend with benetits. So for future refrences, dont allow some egotisical idiot finger you.

I support tiffany’s opinion over this. By doing this with guys you create a bad name for your self. If you now what I mean?? This is things you do with a boyfriend witch you can trust. You must remember that guys of that age like to discuss things they do the girls with other guys and you don’t want that to happen.

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Ian

Sorry lady, any self respect? Never do stuff like that under the influence of alchohal or if there isn't love in the air... you got to uncloud your brain a bit... sorry and no offense.

1st of all I totally agree with tiffany

2nd(n this is just my perspective of the story) he probably just thought you were hot and was trying 2 get in your pants..u got to watch your back on stuff like that!!

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