Very low self esteem

Im 19, but my school days still haunt me, I was bullied for being ugly and different, and even now im that little older and wiser, I still get really concious, my bodys not good enough, my nose is to big etc I know to quit complaining and be happy with...

what I got, but how?

It's hard to just get over something. Dont feel bad for feeling bad about it or for whining. However, know that you can get past it and you will...
Try and pamper yourself when you feel down (like do your nails or your hair) and just keep reminding yourself that you are beautiful. If you start to knock yourself, you need to be able to catch yourself and stop it. Everyone feels a little self conscious at times. The idea is to be able to move on. And never let the way you feel you look stop you from doing something. That just reinforces the behavior and leads to a negative cycle...

dont ever get plastic sergury I say this because god blessed you this way, and your not ugly.

You're not ugly. And self esteem is a problem. But there are ways to cope with it. First find things you like about yourself (that'll make you feel much better). And find things that you DON'T like about yourself, then change them or accept them. If it's unable to change then don't push it, acceptance is the key. And if it's something about you that can be changed then try to change it. Because almost everything in the world has been changed at least once (including people).

when you look in a mirror look at things you like about yourself, dont think your overweight, think about the weight you've lost and be proud that you had the will power to stick with your diet, you've got a pretty smile and your hair looks good in your pic. you have things going for you, you just have to look past the things you dont like.

Well for starters I think kids can be so cruel, I remember back in school being teased etc...The key is to love yourself reguardless, your very beautiful from what I see. No one is going to give you the respect that you truly deserve until you respect and love yourself for who you truly are

I was the same way. until I read an article about this girl who had a HUGE tumor in her face. it was so bad. I just looked at it and was happy my face is normal
it takes time for people to become happy with themselves. everyone over anaylze themselves, in a way where people dont even see what you talking about.
just look at yourself in the mirror and say I am beautiful
and if you think that your not perfect just look at hollywood. so called perfect is just plastic surgey and airbrushing.
and in your picture you are really pretty. I would kill for your hair. my hair is so curly it frizzes. lol

hoped I helped.

your not ugly! and yea I used to have low self esteem but now I dont care at all. I mean I get teased bc people say my voice is squeaky but what I do is either play the sarcasm card ex. wow. that hurt. ouch. that shows that it had no effect. or I just kinda own up to it ex. so? or thanks! and you just have to stop caring. once you do you feel sooo good about urslef. not to be corny but it feels like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders like im not even kidding.

good luck =]

Ugly? who says...anyway, who decided that the magazine cover models are what everbody is supposed to look like? If we all looked like barbie ...how boring...find what you like.. .look up Psalm 139:14

learn to love yourself by being honest about your good points! If your not happy about yourself because of something a few stupid people said, then you need to stop listening so intently to what your told. Get some smarter people to listen to. There is no perfect person everyone has faults, that's what make life interesting!! Make changes for yourself not for others!!