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How can you raise your self esteem ?

Asked by vanessasays about 1 month ago, 7 answers.

How can you raise your self esteem ?
Minee is reaaaly :-(
Lol I don't know im just so shyyy !

Answered by pinkpearl on Oct 10, 2009, 08:41PM
2036 answers

It's easier than you think. Become interested in other people. The more you do that, the more you want to know about others, the less time you'll spend thinking about the view others have of you.

When you think about people who have passed through your life, think about those you have really enjoyed meeting again and what it is about them you like. They could be... friends of your parents... parents of your friends... a person who works at a store. What draws you to them and makes you want to stop and chat?

I'd guess it's usually the level of interest they have in you -- rather than that all they can talk about is themselves.. they ask you what you've been doing, they remember what you told them last... they're interested in you.

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Answered by kiraayumi6789 on Oct 10, 2009, 08:47PM
23 answers

I was shy and mean the entire 6th grade year. so then everybody hated me but when I went to middle school people liked me, because I tried to have frdns and be popular. don't worry. just be confident all the time

Answered by sidn3y123 on Oct 10, 2009, 08:50PM
671 answers

think about the postives of your looks:]
WHen you look in the mirror you gottaa be all;
chelsea.! your beautifull :]

Answered by vanessasays on Oct 10, 2009, 08:52PM
420 answers

But im kinda not :|
im so normal ! brown hair brown red eyes . . small lips and thats it .

Answered by lovesux07 on Oct 10, 2009, 09:23PM

im pretty plain... just dont worry bout what other people think... be yourself and things will fall into place... be more interactive with people... and know that you are very pretty... and im sure you have a great personality

Answered by singysongy22 on Oct 10, 2009, 10:08PM
26 answers

Raising your self esteem is not too hard.I used to be really depressed and I just started thinking about my friend and family and people I love.Think about what they like about you,and what you like about them.That will give you a good long list of great qualities.Then try to find them in yourself.It may take a while to notice,but when you do things that are nice,remember them.Then when you're feeling down remember what a great person you are.3Good luck![=