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I’ve been together with my boyfriend for almost two years in november. I live in california, and he’s from oregon. At the moment he is in seattle, for a summer job. He was offered. And the past two months has been the hardest. He rarley get to talk anymore. And when we do. It sabout his work. Or when he’s not working… He’s so tired. And just wants to sleep. Or some night he’ll try to stay up and talk to me… But then we just get frustrated with eachother. Cause I want to talk to him. But he wants me to understand that he can’t talk at the time. — its so compicated—and I don’t want to loose him. —he’s everything to me— he is going to be moving down to la this nov. I hope it works out. But my question is. “what do it do. How come I get so irritated with him. How can I keep myself from getting frustrated. And why can’t I just enjoy the 5 minute conversation I have with him every day. Why do I always want more. I don’t want to push him to thee edge til he falls. — I love him

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Answer #1

Thank you so much, then you know how I feel. “ and thee other thing. when we talk I don’t know what to say. cause I know any minute he’s going to have to go. and thats when the frustration kicks in. (asking cute little questions) is a great idea thank you. we used to do that. and say things sweet all night. - he even used to sing me songs on the phone to put me to sleep. - now since we don’t have that time anymore. I should be thankful for the five minutes I have. and tell him how much I love him. in those few minutes. so he doesn’t ever foget. –*if you don’t mind me asking. — &since you said you and your boyfriend has been through the same. did you ever feel like –(you didn’t fit into his schedule? like he was always to busy for you. he tells me he’s sorry for making me feel that way . and I totally believe him. but its hard sometime. thanks again. <3 xOx

Answer #2

Because you want to see him and you need to be re assusred how much he loves you and trust me I know the feeling me and my boyfriend went threw this just remind yourself that just because givein up is the easiest thing to do dont mean you ever should theres always away to make it work unless you just arent in love anymore me and my boyfriend ask eachother cute little ?’s whats you favorite memory of us and stuff like that.and it makes all the difference in the world if you tell him I hope you have a good day honey or good night sweetdreams and I hope your day is better tomorrow. or is good tomorrow. & tell him you understand how he feel’s about you guys talkin and he cant talk all the time its just you like to hear his voice.& it makes you feel better to talk.

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