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How can i raise my self-esteem?

Shark Atack Asked by funadvice over 2 years ago, 12 answers.

How can I raise my self esteem and confidence? At the moment I go with the attitude I tried I failed, so I will fail a million times at it. I'm fed up with it. It's the reason why I am no good at anything. Also, what category should this be in?

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sk8ter chick Answered by sk8terpunkkid on Aug 04, 2007, 12:13AM
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okay first i will give u a quote by i think estien idk
i didnt fail i just found 200 ways not to make a lightbulb with that said u just got to find your god given talte every one has one u just got to find yours

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Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 02, 2007, 09:31AM
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hey,
I completely understand where you are coming from ,i am the same way, i dont find myself attractive or creative enough. i dont see myself as smart or ever good enough. i need help in this category as well whoever can help out message me 2 happy

For instance math classes i take at school, i literally fail each year i take a diff math class, ive been tutored, ive gotten help from the actual teacher, i have wrote down what the teacher says then study over it later, i hav tried it all. Most people complain like this when they get a b or c, but i always fail...?sad
maybe you could get a myspace and put some pics of yourself up there abd see what peple say, or talk with some of your friends,
if you need to talk to me

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 02, 2007, 09:46AM
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I'm very good at maths and science, but that's about the only thing I am better at than people my own age.

ME Answered by fungirl77 on Aug 02, 2007, 12:48PM
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LOOK FOR THINGS THAT U R GOOD AT OR LOOK AT HOW U CAN CHANGE HOW WHAT U DID WRONG.

im on the left Answered by mindlessstyle on Aug 03, 2007, 01:35PM
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weightlifting, speak to a therapist, get cooler hobbies, avoid negative mental automated programming (its a negative feedback loop of self esteem)

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 03, 2007, 09:53PM
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Edison failed a thousand times before getting it right and he never considered himself a failure. I'm not a great success in life, I'm not a great employee but I got good self esteem. . . It's all about self respect. . . Learn to respect yourself and live to learn. . . . when in high school I was a C student Now I'm learning to make boots, just finished getting a certification in Computer science and I'm in my 40's Rarely held a job for a year. I have clinical depression but I'm rarely depressed cause I have self respect and I've learned to notice the little blessings. . . Like hearing a child laughing. . . Hearing is a blessing. . . . most of all I learned life is not about me but others. Don't count your miserys.
Now I'm overweight My hair is thinning I have false teeth and I have limited grammer skills and I have Adult Attention deficet disorder. Life is not a bowl of cherrys it's been an up hill battle. . .

Learn to treat life with a little fun spirited self sarcasm. . . usually when the esteem is low you are way to hard on your self. . . that's why I say FUN SPIRITED. . . . And remember when you fail that millionth time. . . Don't give up sit back and dream a little let your imagination go with it and you may figure out how to make it work on the one million and first try then again maybe not. . . keep on keeping on. . .
Sorry I got to rolling their. . . . Hope some of it helps.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 03, 2007, 10:32PM
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Rnealw is right. I mean look at what Edison accomplished . Avoid the negatives. Even the most successful so called perfect individuals have it lol! Noone is left ALONE. People always have an image to stand up for. They love to protect it don't let it fool you. Most people have low self esteem but hide it with raising their heads up acting like they don't care. Find out what you're good at. Such as tagging,drawing,art, painting,skate boarding, break dancing, being crazy lol etc. Not everyone is going to have your combination of talent(s).

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 04, 2007, 05:29AM
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I try something, I fail. I try one more time, I fail again. So I give up and walk away. I have done this all my life, everything new I have tried, I fail so I give up. I try to think of famous quotes, Such as If you think you can, or you think you can't, you are probably right or Anybody who has never made a mistake hgas never tried anything new. Nothing happens.If I continue like this, I'll be some unemployed tramp who washes in lakes and sleeps in a bus shelter.

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 06, 2007, 02:29PM
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i have an idea what about

if ou write down things like

I will Do this i will be ok im brilliant person

stuff like that so that when u feel down you can look at that and perk yourself up again

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 11, 2007, 10:15AM
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become part in a team - basketball, soccer, running etc

then ull feel welcomed and like your accieving a goal!

good luck! x

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Aug 15, 2007, 04:08AM
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What teams are there that aren't sport related?

Shark Atack Answered by funadvice on Jan 27, 2008, 10:16AM
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when I was 12 , my self - esteem was trashed , everyone was making fun of me and I had no friends , and then my mom had me take martial arts because the flyer said it raises disipline , self - esteem , and confidence , and it's REALLY helped me , I suggest you take it

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