Please read i need advice

Here's the Jist of it.

I invited my friend maggie to my birthday party... she's always mean and making fun of my hight and everything... well today I got a call from her saying that we hink she's Shallow and that she can't deal with that at my...

party. She's mad ecause at times I joke around and say things about some people when I mean more... like she Sometimes my and my other friend say she gossips... she does and she tries to taount us with something I told her. like she said I'll tell ___ you like him if you don't tell me this. But we are just jokeing. I also said today that My best friend Izzy Is the only one I trust... (I also said to do this but apperantly she didn't hear this) and it was about her giveing me a piggyback ride. and yes izzy is the only one I trust to do this. But she's not the only one I trust all the time. She thinks we think of her as mean and shallow. Well she is... And whenever I try to talk of hang out with her she tells me to go away because she wants to be with her boyfriend alone. I just joke with her... She really hurt me feelings and I don't know what to say to her... as of now I'm just gonna ignore her because She's mean to me anyway. I just wanted to yell at her when she said this And you think if makes me feel good when you make fun of me all the time... I just live with it!!! Wheat should I do...I don't know if I should feel bad ar say or what... JUst tell me... thank you for reading this long think I know it's hard.

You are socially healthy and considerate. It seems she is not. I see nothing wrong with your behavior in this situation. I also see that Maggie is not shallow, she is manipulative. I say this for the way she would corner you into things with the threat of social embarrassment. Secondly, if she makes fun of you for things you obviously can't control, she aims to discourage you and place you somehow 'lower' than her, based on her own deeply seated and well hidden insecurities. These are the ways of the manipulator. You should wash your hands of her, and move on with your evidently positive, stable life.

If someone acts mean or disrespectful, and claims that they don't like you, tell them to leave you, without returning. And if they still hang around with their bad attitude, it means either you have something they want, or they feel threatened by you somehow and want to 'keep an eye' on you.

Don't let other people's negativity spoil your life. If you care about them, try to help them out of their darkness. And if they can't or won't change for you, then move on. There is no need for words beyond this point.

She hurt your feelings? She must be really hurt that you think she is shallow (etc.) Maybe she is, at least in your perception. You two aren't meant to be friends. I had a friend who always bashed me negatively so I'm not friends with her anymore. You just need to get away from that. You have your other friends to support you. And they should. They should be fine with your decision, despite their own. They can still be friends with Maggie, if they want to.

I don't think she is shallow... I was just pissed

I don't think shes a gud friend..me and my frineds d0o that a lot but we noe that eachother is playin and we would sumthings g0o up to random plle and say that dey like dem ..u guys have to mak sure your on da same page..tell her how you feel mak sure she noes how serious you r ..if she keeps doin what shes doin den 4get ha..if she cant respect the way you feel why would you want her to b your friend? Drop her as a friend and leave her in your past...n remenber don't worry bout da plle in your past deres a reason dey didnt mak it to your future..