How to handle my psycho Mom?

Difficult situation for you both.From your side your growing up boyfriends, sex (use protection) heartbreak and so on.Your mom is freaking out because her little girl is having sex!! This phase will past.Take care

I know what you mean.. Alll I have to say is,… College just doesnt come soon enough!

Oooo and btw! I actually found out that dads seem to like you a lot more! I talked to my dad and he was soo much easier on me than my mom.. my dad helped e through my troubles! So maybe try talking to one of the parents that you dont usually talk to, they seem to want to get to know you that much more.. shrugs just a thought

I get that part, I really do. But why my best friend!!! She goes to my house! I cant be like Hey mom, Hannah is coming over, and go out and have sex!!! We are at home!!!

once your parents lose your trust it’s going to be hard for them to get it back. Sorry, but if I found out my teenage daughter was having sex I wouldn’t want her to be around her boyfriends house because I wouldn’t know if she would be alone or if the boyfriends parents even know what’s going on to stop it. As far as not being able to do other stuff… since she lost her trust in you because you are having sex she might be thinking that you could be saying you are going this place but are really going somewhere else to do other stuff. You just have to take tiny steps to try and prove to her that she can trust you.

Kay, but I cant do birth control because I am Catholic and its against my religion…well its against my religion to have sex too, but I guess that didnt stop me. But how would I bulid that trust back? By appologizing, yeah it will help but what else can I do? I already do the household cooking because my parents have late nite jobs. And I clean a lot too…I cant think of much else to do…

well, I totally uderstand what your saying but just step back for a minute. your mom is just trying to do what she thinks is best for you, you might not get it but she trying and shes doing it only cause your her world. she would do anything for you and just is trying to protect you. I think if you sit and really think of her view of this you might get your answers. like you said your a great student and daughter but she now knows your having sex. It might not sound like a lot but have you gotten on birth controll and gotten tested for stds. honestly shes freaked out that youll get pregnant and/or aids. sex is something totally sersious and thats how you have to look at it. shes not ready to be a grandma or have her daughter die of some aweful thing because of you haveing sex. shes scaried. I do think that sitting down and talking to her will really help you both get on the same level.

Send her an email apologizing for what you did and tell her the truth about everything. My mom caught me lying and having sex when I was 16 and she felt so betrayed because I lied and she though we had such a good relationship. The email worked, but she made me a gyno appt to get me on birth control. I am now 20, and she has now accepted that I have sex and I’ve yet to get pregnant, thanks to the birth control that my mom pays for. It’s better to tell her everything and rebuild your trust, you’ll be better off. I moved out a year ago into my boyfriend’s place and my mom and I are closer than ever.