My husbands a liar

My husband said he was going to his work to get his lap top at 2:00 am. I got an urgent phone call from his dad and called my husband only to hear him ask a girl if she liked nicaraguens because thats what he is. He had pushed talk instead of end so I could hear everything, so I show up at his work and he finally answers. He says he is leaving work but I am in the parking lot and he isnt there. He told me he was in Hong Kong and still hasnt came clean about where he was, I think I want a divorce but I have 2 kids and at 1300 mtg pmt in my name. I dont think I can ever trust this man again. I want out

Pick up the pieces and move on. He is not only a cheater he is also a liar. Even if he wasn't cheating, he lied to you. And if there is no reason to hide why do it then. He has something to hide.

if this is the first time that he lied then you should leave it alone but you should not dviroe him when my parnets dovried I was 4 and now I am 13 but I still I have nigtmares of the day my mom left I still see her and my mom and dad are friends but it really hurts the child

I am so sorry. That stinks. He is not treating you with respect and you deserve better. Be strong. I have learned from past experience that usually men do not tell the truth about cheating unless they are caught red handed. I understand your concern about your children but I believe it is better for them to grow up with a healthy mom then to grow up with two parents not functiong correctly. Then they learn that behavior. If his patten continues, get out. In time, you will have no self esteem. You can do it!