My girlfriend has no interest in me

I'm an eighteen year old male and my girlfriend is nearly 17 We have been dating for 2 and a half years and I have been patient with her as I know she does not enjoy 'sex stuff' but it is getting to the point where I dont even feel like we are a couple because she wont even let me kiss her, which is really damaging my self esteem (although my ego could have coped with being shrunk a bit). The curious thing is that she had sex with another man on the first day of our relationship who happens to be my best friend and later told me not to trust her. I tried to speak to her but she accused me of calling her 'frigid' and we had a blazing row. Now all of my friends are telling me that she is using me and I dont want to believe them and almost lost all of my friends defending her but it is beginning to appear that way. Is there anyway that I can get her libido up because I can cope with no sex untill she is ready but it seems ridiculous to be dating someone who wont even let me hold her. Am I being selfish or should I confront her about it?

I think you 2 were not created for each other. For me your relationship seems to be pure time-wasting.

Your not being selfish, its more like naive! Why would you ruin your relationship with your friends for a girlfriend? I think you need to open your eyes and see what every1 sees! Any relationship that doesnt make you feel good about yourself, is an UNHEALTHY one!! Its obvious that shes just not into you!! What more do you need to hear>she doesnt want you kissing or holding her!! To me thats NOT a relationship!!!

A relationship consists of two sides. One of the sides I know for sure is not satisfied. Do what you feel is right

no relation on that boy ,the girl is realy want to use you

incase you havent realized it, your relationship is illigal, I woul dknow my father works for the FBI