Why does my friend's dad always blame me?

my friend has a dad that is always blaming me for everything that happens to my friend and im getting sick of it. he always thinks that what he says is always true. WRONG! what should I do, because im getting sick of getting yelled at from her dad a lot for no reason all the time.

Tell him to fondle the male anatomy and get to get his head out of his keester.

It seems like your stuck in a classic case...because my mom would do that to a friend of mine a lot, for one, don't lose this friend. Keep her close, if your friend is a friend she'll stick up to her dad like I did to my mom to keep my friendship going, and guess what. Everyones happy now! So we're all good here, so just try to have your friend stick it to him, and maybe he'll lighten up a bit.

but shes too scared to speak up to her dad. she gets yelled at by her dad if she doesn't eat the fat off of a chi ken bone. that is sooo wrong. she has a miserable life.

Well I was scared too! My mom can be scary sometimes. Here2help (the friend that my mom used to not like) is on here and can help explain. But finally I got some guts and said, I can be friends with who I want. And she can yell herself too, I know...ugh scary mom sometimes. And if her dad were to hit her, she could have him arrested, so it's a win win situation. Just try to have your friend talk to your dad, because I have been in that position before.

Haha that's funny, when I was reading your question I thought the same thing and I was like I wonder if Nikki (ladydon) read this yet. =] Yeah and I'm the friend laydon was talking about. Her Mom was always blaming me for something she did kinda, and yes It p!ssed me off very much because I didn't see why it was neccesary for her mom to act, um, "childish." But she was just stubborn, but yeah stay close to your friend, because in the end it's worth it, if you really care about that friend of yours. And in our case, we did, we had so much fun this school year and realized we were true best buds.

So like we said, stay close and try to prove to your friends dad that your a good kid and theres no reason to act that way. And trussst me, I feel for you. It's annoying and kinda makes you mad especially because, you don't understand what the problem is and just want to end it and go on with your life with your friend. If you need to ask me anything funmail me. Good Luck.

well, I cant do nothing to help her because if I try, we'll end up in an argument like always.

What you and your friend? Well if she's not willing to try then she isn't really a friend. Bring that up to her, that if she isn't willing to fight for your guys friendship, than she doesn't seem to care, and if she really does care she should stand up to her dad.

plus, her dad tries to chase me away. her dad doesn't want her to have any friends, but thats not working for me because im never letting her down and im never running away from this bad situation.

Yeah I know, that happened to me and Ladydon too. I tried to help and we started to argue instead, her Mom almost made us not friends anymore. How old are you and your friend? Because once she's 18 she can get out of there and be friends with who she wants.

Well that is good. Don't stop, he will eventually get tired, and...does he have a reason why he doesn't like you? I don't mean like something wrong with you, but are all the lights on in "his" house? Or is he a drinker or anything?

me and her are both 16

well, he does drink and smoke and he probably hates me because im white

Why what is he?

Racism is a very ugly thing and it is wrong...

Yeah does he have some kind of personal/mental problem or is the problem not really known? And yes never give up on your friend. Explain to your friend (If you haven't already) that you want to help and you want her to be happy, you love her and don't want to give up on being friends because you want to be friends forever, you both have the right to at least have that (your friendship), he can't control her forever anyways.

What race is he? Your both 16, thats good, soon she will be 18 and will be able to leave and pick all the friends she wants.

hes just a jerk to me and always gets in my face for no fuc!ing reason. I wish I could just smack him and punch him so hard that he could regret every minute of his life.

hes black

Has he ever pulled the black/slavery card on you?

no, not that I now of

He may be racist, but I"m not sure. Either way though, he doesn' have a right to treat you that way. You shouldn't really have to do anything, that is your friend who should be talking to him, tell her to not be so afraid, that you will be there. You guys can't be scared, I was with my mom and it turned out for the best...my last option was moving out...and maybe she can do that if it's a bad enviroment.

well, if she tries to talk to him like that, he would probably smack her and yell at her too.