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My friend needs help for cutting

Asked by doxuxcxdimxlightx7 about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

My friend is a cutter. She doesnt want help. She likes depressing music. She is the most popular girl in school. She has a hard school and house life. Her parents do not know that she is a cutter. Help!

Answered by nl83 on Apr 30, 2008, 06:16PM
346 answers

sometimes you have to do what is right, and not what is wanted. Cutting is a serious problem and if it were easy for her to admit that she is having this problem then she would probably be seeking help herself. As a friend you should try the best you can to help her, when she is unable to help herself.

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Answered by ty on Apr 30, 2008, 06:12PM
10155 answers

Talk to a school councellor...
Try emailing people at http://www.befrienders.org/
More info on the subject, click under family and friends...
http://www.palace.net/~llama/psych/injury.html

Answered by doxuxcxdimxlightx7 on Apr 30, 2008, 06:14PM
29 answers

she doesnt want that

Answered by justineahhx12 on Apr 30, 2008, 06:16PM
17 answers

Ok my sister cut for more than five years and had the same problem. If she goes around and shows people them she is basicly doing it for attention, but that doesnt mean she doesnt need help. If she does it and no one but you knows then she deffenitaly needs help. I agree with Ty. Talk to your school conseler and tell your friend that they need help. and that you are going to tell someone that you can trust to help them, They will be very mad but when its all over and they are better they will thank you, you need to risk your friendship to save her life. I almost lost my sister to cutting and I wouldnt want you to lose your friend.

If you need anything, anything at all message me.
Hope this helps and things get better.
Justine :]

Answered by doxuxcxdimxlightx7 on Apr 30, 2008, 06:23PM
29 answers

every one that made an answer thank you. I want to ask her out but she thinx all guys wna do is get in her pants. I think that is the only way she will listen though. how can I tell her parents without her noing its me. And she only cuts 5-6 times a year

Answered by ty on Apr 30, 2008, 06:46PM
10155 answers

there is no such thing as only cuts... if she cuts, she has a problem... whether she admits it or not

Answered by funadvice on May 01, 2008, 08:53AM
53906 answers

I do it too and she is a very lucky person to have someone who cares so much. I would recommend sending an anonymous letter saying that you just saw them She gets help. Your not found out. Everyone wins.