My dad is always standing me up

so my dad always lies to me he;s controlling and is always playing mind games with me and I hate it...he was in jail my hole life till I was like 10 and the he got out may of 03 and was out till october he was arrested for like 2 days ad then was out till jan. then he got arrested and was in jail for 2 weeks he promised me he would change and we are tryi to make things better and he keeps standinng me up I haven't seen him in like 2 months and I hate it we have a awful past and I'm gone to be grown up in 2 years I don't know what to do

You have every right to mad and disappointed - he's let you and everyone down, especially himself - at this time it appears he has no integrity, but as long as he's alive, he can change - just do the best you can, you have no control over his actions, I just hope you won't close him out of your life - he's the only father you'll ever have and you need each other - I can tell you, prayer changes things...I wish you every happiness in your future !!

wow ; brook. thats no good. maybe you should sit down
& talk to your dad... tell him whats going through your mind,
and that you really want to spend time w/ him, before you
are an adult... explain to him how much you hurt when you
get stood up, for a stupid reason...

my dads a lowlife, & doesn't even try to be in my life. he pretty
much, doesnt even care that im alive... so I kind of know the
pain you have.

... =] talk to him about it.

umm that sucks my dad really to me is nothing other then my sperm donor. Me and my dad have never had a father daughter relationship and never got along. honestly I hate my dad, when I was little he was drunk and we were living in new york thats where I was born and me and my sister got kidnapped when I was 4 and she was like 6 7 years old. So sI dont get along with my father. I guess you could try talking to him because somtimes talking to someone about how you feel can help that person better themselves.