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Should i talk to my missing sister who just showed up?

Asked by charlesincharge about 1 year ago, 7 answers.

Our sister disappeared almost 11 years without a word to anyone in our family. She was the youngest in a big family, but an adult at the time. We assumed the worst drugs, death, etc. She appeared out of nowhere recently to speak to one family member...

and it turns out she's been living a wonderful life and is very successful. She said she disappeared because we were all belittling and gossiping about her and she just couldn't take it anymore. I kind of want to talk to her now, but at the same time I'm kind of upset. What should I do?

Answered by amblessed on Dec 11, 2007, 02:28PM
12237 answers

Love her - a sister has come home - be happy for her in her positive accomplishments...Merry Christmas to all of you !!

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i look pale as anythinq ! (= Answered by xsamazingx on Dec 11, 2007, 02:29PM
63 answers

that is a really tough situation, and I don't blame you for being mad at her,
I would be too.
maybe you could take it in baby steps,
first make sure your positive you would be okay talking to her.
then tell her how you feel,
talk it out, tell her thats your sad and everything else your feeling.
after all she is family and she probably cares how you feel.
I really hope I could help.
good luck.

woohoo Answered by texaskimmie on Dec 11, 2007, 02:31PM
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What she did to you was horrible, terrible, pathetic, but...not unforgivable. It's kind of like the prodigal son returning. Tell her you are hurt, but you love her and miss her. But be careful, other family members may feel it is a betrayal to them if you become close to her. Feel things out and do whats best for you.

Pattijo Answered by pattijo on Dec 11, 2007, 03:06PM
87 answers

Please talk and share how you both have been feeling , we all have different levels of coping when in despair -- Open your arms to your sister

hh Answered by oneheartnow on Dec 11, 2007, 10:59PM
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Yes, talk to her. Maybe she was hurting also when she left. Be glad she is alive and welcome her w/open arms. She is family!

Answered by love16 on Dec 12, 2007, 08:08AM
125 answers

yes you should talk to her cause you only have one chance to talk to her and she may go missing again so as long as she is around make the most of it.

Answered by kozueworldz on Dec 12, 2007, 11:35AM
507 answers

Talk to her.Let the past pasy away.Since it's already past away.So start a new life now.^^

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