What if I'm in love with my cousin?

hi there im inlove with my cousin and would real love to do things with her but I cant, I know its wrong but I cant handle it at one point we played a game through cell phones called I don't and we used to discuss having sleepovers together at 16 yea I wonder yes but also it can still switch right around shes 17 and im 17 every time I see her I seem to want to give her pleaseure sick I know but I cant handle it she also tends to kick and hit me a lot for a attenting mainly when I call her midget or something but whats weird is its like a uncomfortable silence being in her presence for a while when we see eachother then it comes right. Someone please help me does she feel the same way but wont tell I don't know but it really hurts please help

if you spend a lot of time with your cousin its totally normal to have a crush on her she doesnt live with you so you dont think of her as a sister but you see her a lot so she becomes your best friend (I know I've been there too) youll never stop loving your cousin but you will move on physically and emotionally youll meet another girl that goes to your school or something and ull fall for her

familiy is a lot like window shopping

you can look and want, but you cant have it!

hope that helped!

If everytime you see her you want to give her pleasure, means you are in lust , not love!!

son I dont know who you are but seek help this is unhealthy your cousin is family im not trying to critsize you but it is just wrong you have to find a girl outside of your family if you were to plesure your cousin or whatever your children would suffer they would most likely comeout with mental retardation I cant say no more if thats how you really fell then go for it but im telling you its wrong regardless of how you feel yeah so you get horny well im a guy I do to but I would never think about banging my cousin you can find a girlfriend outside of the family ..

Just because shes your cusion doesn't mean you can't be with her if you want to. If you want to know if she likes you then go ahead and ask her. If it doesn't work out, there is plenty more fiSh in the sea, and time will help heaL your hurt.

And please dont take account of what other members opinions are on this site regarding you and your cusion. At the end of the day you can't control who you have fellings for and if it feels right then follow your heart.

Hope I helped.

Isn't being with your cousin incest?

The prohibition between marriage between 1st cousins is very much an Americanism. Marrying 1st cousins is legal in all of Europe, Canada, and Mexico. In America it is legal in 26 of the 50 states. If you live in a state where marriage is illegal between 1st cousins you can marry in one of the states where it is legal and your state will recognise the marriage. Worldwide 20% of all marriages are between 1st cousins. In the Bible marriage between cousins was common.

I don't know if your cousin is your soul mate but it is possible. Don't let prejudice keep you from persuing this possibility.

Also, there is little difference in the rate of birth defects from 1st cousin couples and unrelated couples. Relations between 1st cousins are not considered incestuous.

I believe its your oppinion as to whether its wrong or not, thats up to your morals and your upbringing

Everyone will have their own personal opinion on this subject, but you are only rating people on what YOU want to hear.

Its true, you cant control your feelings, but you dont act on every impulse you have, thats what you do have control over! Just because you have feelings for a certain person, doesnt mean you have to act on those feelings. Would you act on those feelings if someone you liked was involved with another person, or even married? Thats the difference between maturity, and impulse, and knowing whats right, and whats wrong!

being in love with your own cousin is just sick but wow does your parents know about this I think that you should like really go talk to your parents then talk to your cousin. are you older than her and does she feel the same way bout u , is she even your blood cousin or you just call her your cousin, besides the point you calll someone part of your family so you know . and if she is not your real cousin and you are in love with gher then you should just stop calling her that... I hope I answered your cousin

I don't see what the problem is. If you want to be with your cousin, go for it.

Filletofspam took the words out of my mouth. Most people fail to realize that outside of America, cousin/cousin relationships are normal and legal. Even in America, it's legal for you to marry her in many states! So anyone who tries to tell you that you're sick or need help is just ignorant and narrow minded.

how do I put up questionS?

maybe your just horny?

hi

WELL I DONT THINK THIS IS A GOOD IDEA BECAUSE THIS IS FAMILY! I MEAN PEOLPE DO IT BUT SOMETHING DOWN THE LINE IS WRONG! YOU DONT SLEEP WITH FAMILY! IT'S WRONG! IF YOU FEEL LIKE THIS IS A RIGHT THING TO DO YOUR going to FIND YOURSELF IN TROUBLE! IM SURE YOU DONT WANT THAT! I MEAN TROUBLE WITH THE LAW! TRUST ME I NO!

I've been dating my 4th cousin for 2 and a half years.

Nothing wrong with incest so long as you keep it in the family.
I had sexual relations with my first cousin; we were forced into it by our families. After we separated she married a stranger and her children have some genetic deformity.
By the way, when I started reading this column I assumed Hermione was a girl. If that is the case I can see no objection whatever, on any grounds. Enjoy, I say.