Should i be friends with her when all the guys like her?

My old best friend and I used to be best friend [hint]- old best friends... anyways. She got this boyfriend and started to party a lot which i dont really do.. well we used to not do it. But she changed so we dont hangout as much and a bunch of stuff...

happened when we got in little fights that im not going to go into. Well i feel i should just be friends again. But the thing is (this is going to sound very self consious, which it is) but she is very pretty and i am not bad looking at all. LIke we are both pretty but she is more. It seems like every guy we talked to or meet of course goes for her.. it is very annoying. so i dont know if i want to be friends with her. Imagine if this was you in my position. Would you become friends with her again or just start over and have new friends and not always have to feel so self consious because she is the one always getting stared at. I know im so jealous but maybe if we are not friends ill meet more guys who like me for me and not always comparing us. what do you think??

Listen up girl, COMPARING is not right. Here's the reason: Do you come from the same parents? Same GENES? Same lifestyle? Same everything? I mean my mother her sisters don't look nothing like each other you would think they were adopted. I know this might not make sense but it does to me. There's no such thing as more prettier and better than. Everyone is unique/beautiful in their own way. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It's just this type/preference thing to a guy. Not every guy loves big butts/boobs. Some do some don't. It depends. For instance, some might find Angelina Jolie beautiful some might find her okay and the others ugly. It's all about that person what they like. I think anyone that compares is IMMATURE small minded and should grow up. There's much more to life than to compare and care for looks. A guy is going to have to love you for the whole package. Personality,heart,mind, and looks (option) . I mean being pretty doesn't mean the relationship is going to last. Look at Halle berry Marily Monroe. Naturally beautiful women, but ended up divorcing numerous times. I mean it's nothing exciting having a very pretty girl with a guy...for a lot of reasons first off she will attract so much attention to the point it will cause drama.. and have her end up in tears. be happy you're single.most guys are controlling.

I was in this same thing my best friend ( i kept her) kayla was the popular one with the guys but I just met a wonderful guy named Ausin and know i'm pretty much happy just wait one real guy will like you.

i think that u shouldnt be friends with her if she does things u dont like. and maybe the reason that boys come after ur friend is because she maybe more lose than u are so that doesnt mean that u arent pretty u are just being ur self and no one should change u from doing that.

I understand what you mean But I think that the reason that your not getting the guys is not because your not pretty but because your not confident in your self no matter if jlo is your best friend or not you need to love your self and know that your beautiful and even though your friend is pretty dose not mean that she is prettier then you I think that were all the same we all beautiful in different ways and you just have to be confident in your self and not compare your self with other people and when you have more confidence people will notice and think that your attractive. People tend to not pay attention to people who do not have confidence in them selves but once you do you'll see the change.. Stay friends it's o.k. that you and her like different things! GOOD FRIENDS ARE HARD TO FIND.. If you like ask her tip on what she thinks will make you feel more confident in your self. like how she dose her hair or what kind of clothing to wear but most of all stay you and if you don't like an outfit that she thinks you might like let her know that, that's not your style.. i hope i helped god bless

Thanks blessed...finally someone agrees with me lool! about comparing people...yup confident is the #1 thing that will get you noticed.. and when i say confidence don't go crazy on the make-up be NATURAL do unique hair styles and wear earrings and you know all that stuff. lol