Is it better to be youself or something your not.

I've always thought it was best to be yourself instead of something your not, I'm always being told just be yourself and the right things will come to you rather it's girls, jobs, friends ect . But than I realize it's a bunch of BS, And here's why girls...

are always saying they want a nice caring sensitive man but always go for the jerks, Even if I go for a job interview I admit I'm not the smartest bulb in the box even though I have a learning disability but I'm capable of doing thing's but always get turned down for jobs. I'm polite, nice and friendly. So whats wrong with me.

There's nothing wrong with you! A lot of people think like you also. I can see why you don't believe those other girls when they tell you to be yourself, but you really should be yourself. Somewhere out there, there is always someone that likes the things you do. Always be ready to try new things.

God bless u!

Always be yourself. Nothing is better, never try to be something your not! Those things do come, but it doesn't mean it happens over night!
I dated jerks until I was 30 years old--always let the nice guys go by. I ended up marrying a nice guy.

They say all things happen for a reason. Well,whether that's true I don't know. But I do know that you don't want a girl who's in the only dating jerks stage--u want the one who has grown up and truly knows what she wants.
As for the jobs, maybe its your interviewing skills. Employers who interview people who are confident, articulate, and ask questions.

Just be yourself! Its an old cliche...but it really is true! You may have to wait..but most of the time, its worth it! (•=

if this is to be changing for a girl?boy.
listen im a girl, just be your self, cause if its the fake you, everytime they seeyou, you're going to have to act different, and if you are you, then they will like you or not like you for reason, seriously its better ok (:

be yourself.
you will feel better and people will like you for who you are.
evrybody likes an honest person.
and there is always someone thats sweet and take you for who you are.
jerks will be jerks

You'll feel a lot more comfortable in your own skin if you act like you would want to. If you want to succeed with women, you need a different game plan. Confidence, humour, conversational skills for a start, and money helps (and I don't mean you have to be rich, just have enough money to do regular stuff like dates, trips away etc, the occasional present when you've messed up!). Get to work, it is quite achievable.