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Is 14 and 21 too big of an age difference?

woot Asked by gypsyeyes 25 days ago, 5 answers.

is 14 and 21 too big of an age difference? I really like this guy, Xander. And I don't think I've ever felt this way about anyone before. He's like my perfect match. And I'm pretty positive he really likes me too because he told my brother's fiancee that...

he thinks I'm very attractive and mature. And we're both very musical as well, and have very similar taste in music. And whenever we talk on the phone, I feel like I could tell him anything. He just makes me feel so good about myself. We have so much in common, it's crazy. What do I do about this situation?

Me & my hubby Answered by colethky on Oct 29, 2009, 04:27AM
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You shouldn't do anything about it. 7 years is not that big of an age difference when BOTH of the people involved are above the age of consent. But when one of them is under it then you end up with problems. If the relationship turns sexual (in any way) the older person could get convicted of corrupting a minor, abusing a minor, statutory rape and a whole bunch of other things that would make that person have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his/her life. Is that fair to the older person when the younger one was willing? No, but that's the way the law works.
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If he likes you then he should wait till you're 16, if you like him then wait till you're 16 that way he won't get into trouble.

Why are some of you so.. stupid? Answered by keytherz on Oct 29, 2009, 04:27AM
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Yes. When you get older, this is generally considered okay, but the guy you are talking to is a pedophile, and all he is looking for is sex out of you.
Signs of this? He buys you lots of presents, acts really nice and makes you feel really shy with small things like accidental touches to the hand or leg etc.
Be very careful with him if you do decide to get into a relationship with him, and nomatter how mature you think you are now, in 5 years you will look back and think yourself an idiot. I have done the same thing with myself.

Just be careful.

Why are some of you so.. stupid? Answered by keytherz on Oct 29, 2009, 04:36AM
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Yes. When you get older, this is generally considered okay, but the guy you are talking to is a pedophile, and all he is looking for is sex out of you.
Signs of this? He buys you lots of presents, acts really nice and makes you feel really shy with small things like accidental touches to the hand or leg etc.
Be very careful with him if you do decide to get into a relationship with him, and nomatter how mature you think you are now, in 5 years you will look back and think yourself an idiot. I have done the same thing with myself.

Just be careful.

Evo X Answered by evox_veteran_09 on Oct 29, 2009, 05:41AM
22 answers

What the hell is your family doing? They should be protecting you! This guy is a sick fuck.

:) Answered by lovebug23 on Oct 29, 2009, 07:58AM
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seriously.. no 21 year old should want to date someone that is 14. hes just sick in the mind.

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