Should we have a baby when i'm 13?

Heloo ..
My Names Deanna ..Iam 13 Years Old ..
I Have Bin With My Boyfriend For 2years ..We Have Slept ToGeva .
We Do Alway Use A Condom But He Says Too Me Lets Not I Want To Have A Baby With You And Iam Going To Spend The Rest Of My Life With You. Soo I...

Bin Thinkin A Very Long Time Should I Or Shouldnt I ??
I Wish SomeTime I Was Older Then I Could Have A Baby ..
Iam Just Scared If I Do Get Pergnant He Will Leave Me =[
What Shall I Doo??

It sounds like you need a good slap round your head-I don't believe you are being serious- it's a joke right? please tell me its a wind up!!
I had a baby at 16 (still way too young) by''accident' , because I wasnt that bothered if I got pregnant or not. and anyway, I felt I needed someone to love- or something like that. She just cried ALL the time because I didnt know how to relate to her. Love. milk and nappies are no way enough- you got to have a lot more understanding of life, and of yourself before you will be able to make a child happy and feel safe. You cant learn this stuff from childcare books either! It comes only from growing up and getting in lots of life experience.
You have to look after their perpetual needs ALL DAY LONG and half the night. POOR KID! I'd hate you to be my Mom!
I can't beleive that a anyone under 21 would have a child on purpose- thats got to be the worse Idea ever. Aside from being the worse possible scenario for yourself and the child - where's you Mom and DAD? how could you put them through this- It'll make them heartbroken! absolutely heartbroken! you daft, stupid, hairbrained child!
Mark these words;YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE A HAPPY ONE.

1) you're waaay too young 2 ) if I had to bet, you're right on both counts: - you'd probably get pregnant and - he would be nowhere to be found...in my opinion, please do not go through with this, it would alter your life forever.

Ok, you can't spell, you can't legally sign contracts, rent an apartment or other place to live, you can't afford to live on your own...

...and, you think it makes sense to even consider having a baby? It costs serious money to raise a child. Day care, medical bills, toys, clothing, cribs, diapers, those cost money.

And you'd be paying for this how?

Grow up, get a job, and when you can provide for a child - have one. Until then, please consider how much hate your child will have towards you if you live in poverty as a result of reckless decisions made whilst a child for the rest of their life.

um you are wayyy too young to have a baby...
your wayy to young to be having sex period...
with or without a condom...
do NOT go through with this...
you're only in middle school...
think about your life honey.

god your a chav.

hey do you have msn I will talk 2 about it if you wana im a gd listener..I think your a bit young but I feel you love him and he loves you and its what you both want then why not...but what about your parents?? xx sophie xx wb asap xx

I think you're a bit, OK, WAY to young to have to raise a child. You really don't fully understand what raising a child will involve. You may help watch other peoples kids or neices and nephews or what not- but it is not the same. When the baby is yours you can not just hand it back to its mother. You are the babys mother. How would you expect to finish school, get a job, rent a place? And I promise you, you may think you are in TRUE love now, but you will find out when you get old that it is not true love. No matter how much you protest now, you won't understand that or the complications of raising a baby until you are older. I know you may want it all in your life right now (or by what you are saying- he may want it all right now), but its all just talk. He will split when things get tough. They all do. I've yet to meet one that is different. Just wait. Wait until you are older and then rethink that one. If you have any doubt at all you aren't ready. I don't want to offend you, don't take it that way. I had my son when I was 17 and it was a huge struggle for me just to take care of him. And my so called boyfriend of 5 years- who wanted a baby too- he left me with that baby. He was my TRUE love. I told my parents that it would last forever. I was too young to know better. If you are still together after 2 years, you should just be proud of that accomplishment. And sex does not equal love, no matter what he says.

ur too young have you thought about the responsibity of having a living thing to love and take care of day and night

whoa a baby ur 13 have you even thought about how ur going to raise it or if ur bf leaves you and what will ur parents think?...look its up to you but at least think of how the babies life is going to be with a mum and dad still in skool with grandparents who might not even care about you or the baby ! Not to mention how you will cope!

in addition to all that these people have said.. youre so young yours would be a high risk pregnancy. You and your baby could die during birth... or other complications could arise.

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i may not no you butt i am 13 and i am verry good at givin advise
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A lot of people have mentioned this already but you are too young to be thinking about that. You should just focus on school right now...school comes before anything. I understand you love your boyfriend very much but you guys don't even know what LOVE is. You're going to find other people out there in this big world so don't give it up to this one person that you think might stay with you. You'll guys regret it in the long run! If you need anybody to talk to...you can e-mail me at Fun mail me

Are you out of your mind?

Whoa...You are way to young. I am way to young and I'm 20. I have tons of friends that are 18-20 years old and they have had babys and they will ruin your relationship with your boyfriend and they cost a lot of money. You definatley need to wait you have your whole life ahead of you. Do you wanna be up at 3 in the morning feeding and changing a baby? Do you wanna be able to go out with your friends and boyfriend b/c with a baby you will be at home. Plus remember babies get big and you have them for 18 years. Your parents would be really upset and they would have to take care of your baby b/c your boyfriend will leave you. If you need someone to talk to im me or e-mail Fun mail me or bbygirl12187. Please do not get pregnant!!!

Please do not do that! It will be the biggest mistake you have ever made in your whole life. A baby is A LOT of responsiblity and I bet you your boyfriend will leave you as soon as your prego. I've seen it happen a lot. I am 20 and all of my friends have kids and they are not easy to take care of. You won't have a life anymore besides feeding and changing a baby. They cost money to by the time their 18 usually about $250,000. Do you have that kinda money...i dont think so. It would be wrong b/c your parents woul have to take care of it. Plus since you are only 13 you will have a high risk pregnancy which mean you or your baby could die. Do not listen to your boyfriend I was almost married and I left mine. You need to worry about school not getting pregnant! Stay young as long as you can I promise when you start having bills and a job you will wish you were 13 agian. Enjoy your life without a child b/c you are still a child yourself. Email me if you need someone to talk to I'm a great listener/ Fun mail me

go ahead be stupid an get pregnant. its not fun. im 18 i go clubbin 3 times a week this whole year .. girl jus break up wit him.. u shouldnt be havin kids now anyways. he is not the one.. ive been in love 3 times... there is never the right guy.. half of them are the same

omggg
IM ALMOST 16 AND I DONT THNIK IT IS A GOOD THING..
I MEAN YEAH YUO LOVE HIM BUT UMM THINK ABOUT
IT YOU ARE 13 AND DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DONIG..
YOU MIGHT BE MATURE.. BUT IF YU ARE 13 THEN YOU HAVE BEEN WITH HIM
SINCCE 11 ... YOUR LIKE A BABY YOUSELF.. AND ITS ALSO AGAINST THE LAW
TO HAVE SEX TILL YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD..
YUO ARE STILL IN A FAIRY TALE LOVE..
AND THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS IN THIS PLANET..
YUO WILL GET OVER HIM TRUST ME..
I BEEN THERE..AND IVE BEEN THREW AT LEAST 5 GUYS THAT TOLD ME THE SAME THING.. GOD BLESS YUR SOUL

seriously...13? and you wanna have a kid? GREAT IDEA! REALLY FANTASTIC! if you were my kid I'd slap a chastity belt on your a** and lock you up...what's wrong with you? this looks a case only Maury could solve!

Dear person,
You are NUTS you are way too young. First of all it takes loads of money... second of all how will you get a job? Third, your body isnt even fully matured yet... You probably didnt have your period yet or go into full puberty... You are too young grow up the boy just wants to get you preg then leave you. To a man, Two year relationship aint nothing to lose. If he really loves you he will wait until you get married and get an education then think about a baby... I bet you a million bucks if you gae him a lie detector test he has cheated with about a dozen girls!!!

Good Luck,
Sammy

ok i am a young mother i was 14 when i had my daughter i was not ready emotionally or physically ready u shouldn't even be thinking about sex yet but i know kids ur age r but jus lkisten 2 someone who thought the same thing i thought my bf would be with me forever and boys lie, how old is he in the 1st place?
listen u, me and everyone on here knows ur gonna do what you want but take it from a really young mom kids should not be having kids! i know!

well sweetie if u need some help message me cause i know wat ur going through well gotta go i have homework and my kid is sick so bye and goodluck,

-hails

yeah the anwers you got are right YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG! I mean sounds to me that your man or so to be called man is just using you for one thing and one thing only! yeah Your are probly right if you get pregnant he would NOT stay around watch it girl their are alot like him. I mean how in the world does he think that he is going to support you and a kid unless he's like 30 and is doctor or a lawyer do dont it wait at least 6 more years!! DONT DO IT