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1) you're waaay too young 2 ) if I had to bet, you're right on both counts: - you'd probably get pregnant and - he would be nowhere to be found...in my opinion, please do not go through with this, it would alter your life forever.
Ok, you can't spell, you can't legally sign contracts, rent an apartment or other place to live, you can't afford to live on your own...
...and, you think it makes sense to even consider having a baby? It costs serious money to raise a child. Day care, medical bills, toys, clothing, cribs, diapers, those cost money.
And you'd be paying for this how?
Grow up, get a job, and when you can provide for a child - have one. Until then, please consider how much hate your child will have towards you if you live in poverty as a result of reckless decisions made whilst a child for the rest of their life.
um you are wayyy too young to have a baby...
your wayy to young to be having sex period...
with or without a condom...
do NOT go through with this...
you're only in middle school...
think about your life honey.
god your a chav.
hey do you have msn I will talk 2 about it if you wana im a gd listener..I think your a bit young but I feel you love him and he loves you and its what you both want then why not...but what about your parents?? xx sophie xx wb asap xx
I think you're a bit, OK, WAY to young to have to raise a child. You really don't fully understand what raising a child will involve. You may help watch other peoples kids or neices and nephews or what not- but it is not the same. When the baby is yours you can not just hand it back to its mother. You are the babys mother. How would you expect to finish school, get a job, rent a place? And I promise you, you may think you are in TRUE love now, but you will find out when you get old that it is not true love. No matter how much you protest now, you won't understand that or the complications of raising a baby until you are older. I know you may want it all in your life right now (or by what you are saying- he may want it all right now), but its all just talk. He will split when things get tough. They all do. I've yet to meet one that is different. Just wait. Wait until you are older and then rethink that one. If you have any doubt at all you aren't ready. I don't want to offend you, don't take it that way. I had my son when I was 17 and it was a huge struggle for me just to take care of him. And my so called 'boyfriend' of 5 years- who wanted a baby too- he left me with that baby. He was my TRUE love. I told my parents that it would last forever. I was too young to know better. If you are still together after 2 years, you should just be proud of that accomplishment. And sex does not equal love, no matter what he says.
your too young have you thought about the responsibity of having a living thing to love and take care of day and night
It sounds like you need a good slap round your head-I don't believe you are being serious- it's a joke right? please tell me its a wind up!!
I had a baby at 16 (still way too young) by''accident' , because I wasnt that bothered if I got pregnant or not. and anyway, I felt I needed someone to love- or something like that. She just cried ALL the time because I didnt know how to relate to her. Love. milk and nappies are no way enough- you got to have a lot more understanding of life, and of yourself before you will be able to make a child happy and feel safe. You cant learn this stuff from childcare books either! It comes only from growing up and getting in lots of life experience.
You have to look after their perpetual needs ALL DAY LONG and half the night. POOR KID! I'd hate you to be my Mom!
I can't beleive that a anyone under 21 would have a child on purpose- thats got to be the worse Idea ever. Aside from being the worse possible scenario for yourself and the child - where's you Mom and DAD? how could you put them through this- It'll make them heartbroken! absolutely heartbroken! you daft, stupid, hairbrained child!
Mark these words;YOUR CHILD WILL NOT BE A HAPPY ONE.
whoa a baby your 13 have you even thought about how your going to raise it or if your boyfriend leaves you and what will your parents think?...look its up to you but at least think of how the babies life is going to be with a mum and dad still in school with grandparents who might not even care about you or the baby ! Not to mention how you will cope!
in addition to all that these people have said.. youre so young yours would be a high risk pregnancy. You and your baby could die during birth... or other complications could arise.
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A lot of people have mentioned this already but you are too young to be thinking about that. You should just focus on school right now...school comes before anything. I understand you love your boyfriend very much but you guys don't even know what LOVE is. You're going to find other people out there in this big world so don't give it up to this one person that you think might stay with you. You'll guys regret it in the long run! If you need anybody to talk to...you can e-mail me at Fun mail me
Whoa...You are way to young. I am way to young and I'm 20. I have tons of friends that are 18-20 years old and they have had babys and they will ruin your relationship with your boyfriend and they cost a lot of money. You definatley need to wait you have your whole life ahead of you. Do you want to be up at 3 in the morning feeding and changing a baby? Do you want to be able to go out with your friends and boyfriend b/c with a baby you will be at home. Plus remember babies get big and you have them for 18 years. Your parents would be really upset and they would have to take care of your baby b/c your boyfriend will leave you. If you need someone to talk to im me or e-mail Fun mail me or bbygirl12187. Please do not get pregnant!!!
Please do not do that! It will be the biggest mistake you have ever made in your whole life. A baby is A LOT of responsiblity and I bet you your boyfriend will leave you as soon as your prego. I've seen it happen a lot. I am 20 and all of my friends have kids and they are not easy to take care of. You won't have a life anymore besides feeding and changing a baby. They cost money to by the time their 18 usually about $250,000. Do you have that kinda money...I dont think so. It would be wrong b/c your parents woul have to take care of it. Plus since you are only 13 you will have a high risk pregnancy which mean you or your baby could die. Do not listen to your boyfriend I was almost married and I left mine. You need to worry about school not getting pregnant! Stay young as long as you can I promise when you start having bills and a job you will wish you were 13 agian. Enjoy your life without a child b/c you are still a child yourself. Email me if you need someone to talk to I'm a great listener/ Fun mail me
You are way too young to even consider such things! you could also die due to the fact that you are still young. Not to mention the people who would ridicule you for being preagnant at such an age. No way!!!
go ahead be stupid an get pregnant. its not fun. im 18 I go clubbin 3 times a week this whole year .. girl just break up wit him.. you shouldnt be havin kids now anyways. he is not the one.. I've been in love 3 times... there is never the right guy.. half of them are the same
omggg<>>>
IM ALMOST 16 AND I DONT THNIK IT IS A GOOD THING..
I MEAN YEAH YUO LOVE HIM BUT UMM THINK ABOUT
IT YOU ARE 13 AND DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DONIG..
YOU MIGHT BE MATURE.. BUT IF YU ARE 13 THEN YOU HAVE BEEN WITH HIM
SINCCE 11 ... YOUR LIKE A BABY YOUSELF.. AND ITS ALSO AGAINST THE LAW
TO HAVE SEX TILL YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD..
YUO ARE STILL IN A FAIRY TALE LOVE..
AND THERE ARE SO MANY GUYS IN THIS PLANET..
YUO WILL GET OVER HIM TRUST ME..
I BEEN THERE..AND I've BEEN THREW AT LEAST 5 GUYS THAT TOLD ME THE SAME THING.. GOD BLESS YUR SOUL
seriously...13? and you want to have a kid? GREAT IDEA! REALLY FANTASTIC! if you were my kid I'd slap a chastity belt on your a** and lock you up...what's wrong with you? this looks a case only Maury could solve!
Dear person,
You are NUTS you are way too young. First of all it takes loads of money... second of all how will you get a job? Third, your body isnt even fully matured yet... You probably didnt have your period yet or go into full puberty... You are too young grow up the boy just wants to get you preg then leave you. To a man, Two year relationship aint nothing to lose. If he really loves you he will wait until you get married and get an education then think about a baby... I bet you a million bucks if you gae him a lie detector test he has cheated with about a dozen girls!!!
Good Luck,
Sammy
ok I am a young mother I was 14 when I had my daughter I was not ready emotionally or physically ready you shouldn't even be thinking about sex yet but I know kids your age are but just lkisten 2 someone who thought the same thing I thought my boyfriend would be with me forever and boys lie, how old is he in the 1st place?
listen u, me and everyone on here knows your going to do what you want but take it from a really young mom kids should not be having kids! I know!
well sweetie if you need some help message me cause I know what your going through well gotta go I have homework and my kid is sick so bye and goodluck,
-hails
yeah the anwers you got are right YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG! I mean sounds to me that your man or so to be called man is just using you for one thing and one thing only! yeah Your are probly right if you get pregnant he would NOT stay around watch it girl their are a lot like him. I mean how in the world does he think that he is going to support you and a kid unless he's like 30 and is doctor or a lawyer do dont it wait at least 6 more years!! DONT DO IT
well im 14, and I think that gettin pregnant at this point in my lyfe iz not a priority. I saw what happend 2 my brother when he was 15 and had a baby with a girl. btw, his daughters 12th bday iz 2day(coincidence). the two of them had a hard timme dealing with the responsibility. I just think that you should focus more on yur studies. how old iz yur boyfriend? I mean, you r probably in like, 7th ot 8th grade, not in high school yet. what do yur parnets think??? live out yur childhood and then think about all that. the not being a virgin thing, I think you r 2 yung!!!
well im 14, and I think that gettin pregnant at this point in my lyfe iz not a priority. I saw what happend 2 my brother when he was 15 and had a baby with a girl. btw, his daughters 12th bday iz 2day(coincidence). the two of them had a hard timme dealing with the responsibility. I just think that you should focus more on yur studies. how old iz yur boyfriend? I mean, you r probably in like, 7th ot 8th grade, not in high school yet. what do yur parnets think??? live out yur childhood and then think about all that. the not being a virgin thing, I think you r 2 yung!!!
At 13, its not legal for him to have sex with you. Sounds like jail might be the best place for him.
The one I have sympathy for is any baby you might have. What kind of life to have a 13 yr old mother? Would you even be able to make enough milk for him/her?
HELL NOOO no baby at 13 hel im 23 and I aint ready. damn why is this even on your mind. at least graduate from high school first you idiot
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Dont have a baby that early. You dont have the money nor the support to have a baby at the age of 13. You will be regretting it when you are older and want a job thats pays good money that you couldnt get because you had to stay home and take care of a baby. Tell your boyfriend to wait till you are sure you will have the support you need or at least you need to think greatly about your future and career life before you risk it. Im 16 years old and my boyfriend is 18, we want to have a baby.. we have been together for 2 years as well and survived through highschool with no argues at all, but we come to a conclusion that the age of 23 is the best for us to have a baby (we will both be out of college and have great responsibilty and the money we need to take care of one) I advise you to do the same... I hope I helped =) Take Care and make good choices!
personally its up 2 you and your boyfriend 2 decided the outcome...being 13 and having a child is fine...of course you need to being getting your period...another thing iz that if your boyfriend stated that he wants 2 b with you 4 your life he will need 2 pt in a lot of effort in2 looking afta u , himself and your child.
I have wanted a child since I was 14 or 15 and now Im 16...im not pregant @ the mom nor do I have a boyfriend but good luck with the choice you make and be a good motha!
xoxo
hunny,
you shouldnt really have a baby at the age of 13.I know you might think your in love but your 13 you have your life in front of you.Having a baby could also possibly kill you.my best friends mom almost died having her at 16. I dont think your body could handle the pressure.With a baby it could bring out the best & worst in each other but mostly the worst.he probally could leave you & sorry to say most men do because they cant handle the pressure of being a teenage father.& then your left to raise the baby alone.
Jo
Umm... NO!!! You're way too young, you can't even drive and yes there is a 99.99999999999999999% chance that he WILL leave you. He's just saying that cause he doesn't like to use the rubber. You don't even need a boyfriend that's like that anyway.
OMG THATS what I THINK TOO BUT I ACTUALLY DID WITHOUT ONE 2DAY and IM LIKE SCARED AS FUKK OMG DONT DO IT ...HOW WOULD you TELL your PARENTS THATS what IM THINKIN RIGHT NOW...
IF you WANT TO TALK MORE ABOUT SUMTHINK FEEL FEE TO EMAIL ME AT
for a god safe...are you okay???13 years old??? IF you WANT 2 SPEND ALL YOUR LIFE ON RAISING A CHILD ITS OKAY...but think a little .u should finish school and find a good job then you worry about having a baby...the right time is about when you become 20 to 30 years ...
errr...NO
you stupid idiot, can you no see that you wouldnt be able look afeter it
have you got the money...NO
have you got the expreiance...NO
have you got a stable relationship...NO
would your parents aprove...NO
have you got any deceint eduication...NO
are you in love...NO
do you live in a stable home with a stable relationship...NO
im 15 and I can see that this is the most stupid thing in the world to do...your only 2 years younger surly you can see that this is the most stupid thing and SELFISH thing in the world to do...
IDIOT!
Think about your parents how would they feel? Do you think you're responsible enough to have one? Let alone pay for it? You have some descisions to make in your life, and at this age, it shouldn't be one. You should wait to think about this in about 3 years, that's still a young age, but it is legal working age. You DEFINATLY SHOULD NOT BE GETTING FUNKY WITH A 19 YEAR OLD AT AGE 13!!! IT'S JUST NOT RIGHT!!! HE COULD GET THROWN IN JAIL!!!
Think about your parents how would they feel? Do you think you're responsible enough to have one? Let alone pay for it? You have some descisions to make in your life, and at this age, it shouldn't be one. You should wait to think about this in about 3 years, that's still a young age, but it is legal working age. You DEFINATLY SHOULD NOT BE GETTING FUNKY WITH A 19 YEAR OLD AT AGE 13!!! IT'S JUST NOT RIGHT!!! HE COULD GET THROWN IN JAIL!!!
Think about your parents how would they feel? Do you think you're responsible enough to have one? Let alone pay for it? You have some descisions to make in your life, and at this age, it shouldn't be one. You should wait to think about this in about 3 years, that's still a young age, but it is legal working age. You DEFINATLY SHOULD NOT BE GETTING FUNKY WITH A 19 YEAR OLD AT AGE 13!!! IT'S JUST NOT RIGHT!!! HE COULD GET THROWN IN JAIL!!!
the short answer is no.
mentally - you couldnt handle it, he couldnt handle it, your parents cant handle it. many people over like 30 cant handle having a baby, what makes you think you could?
physically - so many problems occur when young girls have babies, this is graphic but deserved, some girls get torn from the bottom of their vaginas to their anus's. I dont care what anyone says, no matter how old they are noone likes being ripped in half.
socially - do you really want to be known as the 13 year old with a baby? you will be stereotyped as a stupid, ignorant, STD ridden slut. even if thats not who you are.
economically - there is no way you can support that baby, its cruel on it.
I am a 16 year old, I am having sex, I do love my boyfriend and I know he loves me. we want to have children too, we want to spend the rest of our lives together, just not yet. you need to know the facts before rushing into a year of regret
if she doesnt get the message with all these replies then there is no hope for her
I know you are in love w/ him and im sorry to have to say this but you should wait till you are older because im 13 and I have a 4 month old its really hard because I dont have a job and my boyfriend left me after I got preg.
I am 15 I an preganat and I don`t think you would want a baby at 13 because you will want to go out and party and have fun like other gurls your age. while you are pregnant/had a child you cant do anything you have to support that baby and you will need a job so that will take up most of your time,and you may have to drop out of school your parents will have to work to support you and your baby.
Babies/ chidlren normally cost $11,000 US dollars a year, where will you get the money, and who will supply it. Your child could be born with birth defects and mental disabilites due to your body`s young age and development.
There is NOTHING wrong with wanting a baby NOTHING, but there is something wrong with not loving your baby enough to think about things like how you will feed it, nurture it and love it. You cannot be a mother, go to school ,and recieve an education WHILE paying your bills, it is not possible, nor healthy, wait until you can provide a home and a good life for a child before taking the idea.
you are way to young for a baby.
doesnt matter how long you've been
'togeva' you need to wait until your
actually ready. you have zero ways to support
yourself right now . dont make life hard, so early.
finish school go to college get a good paying job .
THEN. have babies.
First off, stay in school, learn to spell and speak English properly. Then and only then should you even consider it. You sound ignorant when you type in slang, its bad enough to speak that way. I can't get over the fact that so many of you young kids want to have a baby, buy a damn dog. Wouldn't you rather be rich and successful? Kids don't let that happen. Work on your life before you wreck someone else's. Read a book, that's what you should do, read a GOD DAMN book.
First off, stay in school, learn to spell and speak English properly. Then and only then should you even consider it. You sound ignorant when you type in slang, its bad enough to speak that way. I can't get over the fact that so many of you young kids want to have a baby, buy a damn dog. Wouldn't you rather be rich and successful? Kids don't let that happen. Work on your life before you wreck someone else's. Read a book, that's what you should do, read a GOD DAMN book.
yea I was thinking a lot to and im thirteen...but my boyfriend and have beewhen uear and we don't evn have sex...me you should try to be absenet and wait until you get marrid and when you old eunugh amd when you can actuLLY pay fro the needs of the child!!!...
GOOD LUCK
no you shouldn't it is very bad on your body expecial your crevix
look im not havin a go..im just givin friendly advice 
yhur way to young hunnieee
dont do it
yhu dont reali want a baby...I always feel like I want one but I no I wunt be able to cope..and im onli 14.
tell yur mum how yhuu feel & ask for advice but babes pls dont do it
xx
A lot of people on here need to calm down. Stop telling her that she's an idiot. Now here is my advice, take it from somebody who knows. I have twin girls and they are A LOT of work. It's not that I don't love them but seriously. Having them was not my choice, I was raped. If I could have prevented it, I would have. Now that they are here, of course I love them and would not give them up for the world. But you on the other hand have a choice. I can't tell you what to do and I'm not going to. Best of luck in your decision...what ever it may be. God Bless.
NO! wait! I no its been two years but you cant tell if he is still going to be there in a couple of years time! wait and if your still together when your 16 for example then maybee consider it. but if he loves you he will accept your choice.
AHAHahhahaaAHHAH!!!
13?!
Someone tell me this is a joke.
hun thats not such a good idea remember if your going to have a baby make sure your ready and your positive that you want a child not because your boy friend said so
shame on your boyfriend for trying to take your virginity away from you he shouldnt even be considering that question
I wouldnt have a baby unless you knew for sure he was going to stay with you and you both would want to have jobs that would help you a lot and think about what your family will say or do... just thik about it
wow. you definatly dont need a baby. your still a baby yourself. anyhow, what are you doing wanting a baby now anyways? you have your whole life ahead of you. you're like in 8th grade. your way too young. your baby would have a awful time. thats awful that your even thinking that way.
whatever I say will be rephrasing what anyone who says you're too young.
so I'll just quietly state my opinion in one word.
no.
I want a kid too but not know cause I am to young
hey don't fill bad about what other people say imean some just don't understand but I have been in your sit so yea I mean I can't tell you do or don't but if you realy think he means it and yalll have your priorities stright then what ever but yea it is your chose
r you nuts? Your 13... if you do have a baby hope oyu got a good supportive family because if not your baby will be in a foster home due to you and your think he is in love boyfriend cant get a job yet.. still have school... trust me im taking parenting class and it is by no means cheap... can you afford around 1,500 a month or mor because youll need it... grow up you aint in love it wont last forever... Man this makes me sick to my stomach lil kids like you having sex having kids thinking your in love... your not een responsible yet...
if you luv being a slut thats ok!!!thats kinda easy to do think bout d consequences!!!slut
DO NOT, DO NOT GET PREGNANT!!! IT WILL RUIN YOUR LIFE. YOUR BOYFRIEND SOUNDS LIKE A PIG. DON'T TRUST HIM, AND DON'T GET PREGNANT. WAIT 'TILL YOU ARE MARRIED, HAVE A JOB, ARE FULLY EDUCATED, AND HAVE A PLACE TO LIVE. DON'T DO IT.
nooo do not have a baby you are too young and it will ruin your life I say this as muture I can be
DONT DO IT!!!
LOVE&HEARTS;
ESTELA
You are way too young to have a child. You can't even use the correct form of words yet!! You just need to get an education and leave the sex thing alone! You have your whole life ahead of you and don't need a child holding you down.
You are way too young to have a child. You can't even use the correct form of words yet!! You just need to get an education and leave the sex thing alone! You have your whole life ahead of you and don't need a child holding you down.
he will leave you,he wants a baby now,but when it comes to supporting the baby and you he will leave and your way to young to even be doing that
I'm not even going to try to be nice.
you're stupid. go play with barbies.
No, I'm 16teen and I'm about to have one I would not be the way I was I just got married and if I would have not got pergnant if I no it was gona be this hard well, just to let yo8u no sum cons. here I go you never get any sleep you never got money you never get time to your self you are always going you never stop and you have to put up with your parents crying every nite thinking they did not do a good job at taking care of there little girl nad would your parents kill you b/c I thought mine was gona kill me so when he say that say are you relly ready and I do what you are going thought thats why I'm pregnant b/c I was with greg 4 five years and he said if I loved him as much as I said I would let him and I did and look what happend I'm going to school about to have a baby and working so I can get the money to pay for it and sum more con's are no cheer leading no anything you stay at the house with that kid all the time and there will be no time for you and your b/f b/c of the baby
~$~Gabrielle Holland~$~
YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!!! does the father have a job? would he support the baby? and if you have the slitest bit of doubt in your mind, DONT DO IT! YOU WILL MESS UP YOUR LIFE!!!
ok think about this:How old is your mom now?When the kid is your age, you will only be 26 or 27.U NEED HELP! GET IT SOON!dont do it im 12 and am suprised the 16 year olds would do it! what if he leaves u? how are you going to support this kid? think about it: wats your income going to be?
Should we have a baby when I'm 13?
Heloo ..
My Names Deanna ..Iam 13 Years Old ..
I Have Bin With My Boyfriend For 2years ..We Have Slept ToGeva .
We Do Alway Use A Condom But He Says Too Me Lets Not I Want To Have A Baby With You And Iam Going To Spend The Rest Of My Life With You. Soo I Bin Thinkin A Very Long Time Should I Or Shouldnt I ??
I Wish SomeTime I Was Older Then I Could Have A Baby ..
Iam Just Scared If I Do Get Pergnant He Will Leave Me =[
What Shall I Doo??