I'm 14 and i want to get pregnant.

Okay, well I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 13. I want to have a baby and I feel that I am mature enough.. I'm not scared about having a baby. I'm just scared about telling my parents. What should I do?

you're scared to tell your parents? you're not adopting a dog... you're talking about a baby. can you imagine your mom saying those words? no? because no parent's primary concern should be what their mommy thinks...

having a child is a BIG responsiblity . if you have a baby will you be able to take care of it properly? finsh school ?
do you or your b/f have a job ?
how will you take care of this baby .
are you ready to go thro and make the changes to become a mother?
what if you and your b/f dont work out ... you need to think this all the way thro

Woah...you are WAY too young!

well juss ask yourself these questions and if you can honestly answer yes to all of them then hey juss have th babd

-if your parents kikk you out and you have no were to go are you gonaa be able to support the baby urself?

-if you baby get sikk and you don't know what to do and your home alone can you drive to the hospital?

-can you provide for your baby without anyones help?

Ru sure you and your boyfrie is going to be togther foreve? because you don't want your baby growing up without a father.

-even though you arent even old enuff to get a jobb how are you gonna support your baby by urself??

did you tell your mom??

funmail me ok I went thru the same problem

want me to be honest... you'll ruin your life.. how the heck do you expect to give the kid a good life? you probably wont even make it through high school with a baby... and your boyfriend.. 14? damn... he wont make any money...

I've always felt the same way as you.. but you should know that you should wait, I'm 16 now and I've always wanted one.. I feel that I am also mature enough but I do know that it'd be really hard.. I want to finish school get a good job and find someone that I really love who also really loves me before I get to that level. even if you think you're mature enough, it's hard work and you'll need money to pay for it.. you may have to drop out of school and get a low paying job.. you'll be struggling for a long period of your lifetime.. best thing to do is wait. if I can do it, you can too.

Please wait until you can support a child and be responsible. You just think you want a baby - it will change your life where is not your life anymore. Please re-think your wishes.

You may want you and think your mature enough but can you support a baby
Can you offer the child everything it will need? I doubt it
I recently had a pregance scare and first thought wasn't am I ready for this it was can I provide for the Baby and my girlfriend

Your obviously not mature if you think having a baby at 14 is a good idea. Your body isn't physically ready to carry a baby and you aren't mentally ready either. If you can answer yes to all these questions, which I bet you can't go a head and have the baby.

Can you and your boyfriend both work to support this baby?

Will your parents support you through this and look after the baby while your at school?

Will you be willing to miss out on loads of parties?

Will you be willing to give up your teenage years?

Will your boyfriend be willing to miss out on parties and his teenage years?

If you and your boyfriend split up will he support the baby?

Will you be able to afford to pay for one?

If your parents kick you out do you have a place to go?

So answered yes to them all? If you have you are probably lying to yourself. It may seem like a good idea playing Happy families but go buy a doll or something for your game, that would work out better.

sometimes I have thoughts about wanting a baby. but I know I am not quite old enough yet and I am going to be 18 in august. if I am almost 18 and not ready, and you are only 14; you are definitely not ready either.
babies are a huge responsibility. on top of taking care of yourself and your significant other, you have a baby to take care of and being 14 years old you arent even old enough to be dating. you should really just wait.

im 14 too and I have a 13 year old boyfriend too and we've already had sex and what I learned from that was that he isnt developed enough lol
and he is totally mature but not totally developed!!
so having a baby right now would be hard but not impossible
and also telling your mama is going to be easier than you think - she will cry and probably ask you a million questions!!

You're still a little kid for god sake!!! Wait some years then rethink it. Geez.

***Okay, well I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 13. I want to have a baby and I feel that I am mature enough..***

Well, you're NOT...

***I'm not scared about having a baby. I'm just scared about telling my parents.***

...a CLEAR indication of immaturity...

***What should I do?***

Wait ten more years.

Oh my Gosh! A 13 year old a 14 year old Oh geezz...This is whats wrong with the damn world today! All these little girls think its cool to have sex have a baby...Well let me tell you something you wouldnt be able to handle a baby your still a baby yourself for cryin aloud! Your a selfish little girl you need to grow up before you have a baby!!! All you care about is you I want I want I want If you have a baby it not going to be about you any more...that baby is going to need you 24/7 do you think a 13 year old can handle that?! Grow up little girl you have your WHOLE life to go to have babys! And if you do end up pregnant how the hell would you support that baby?? In the end your parents well prob be the one looking after your baby...but how do you know that for sure they might kick you outt the house I know I would!! Do you have a job? Do you what to finsh school? Do you want to go to college? Well the babys dad stick around and help you? Do you want to be able to go have fun with your friends on the weekend? Oh and what if your parent do nothing and kick you butt on the street...then what?You'll be homeless out in the streets with a BABY...A baby needs a mother that can be a mother 24/7 not once a week or when I feel like it a baby needs you 24/7!!! WAIT to have a baby... a baby is a lot of work...you really just need to grow up and really think about what you really want to do...And if you are a virgin stay that way until you mature and stop thinking about yourself all the time

alright well to start off with, are you sure this is really what you want to do? do you truly realize the kind of hard work it takes to be a parent? do you get how many sacrifices you and your boyfriend, whom aren't even totally committed by marriage yet, are gonna have to make? do you get how much more life you have to live before you have to even worry about starting your own family? maybe think about these things before you make any decision yet. for example, how are you going to support your new family? where are you going to live? how will you raise this child when you still are being risen yourself? are you sure that your boyfriend will stick with you and help you through this childhood of your newborn? there's many questions that you will need to answer in order to proceed with this kind of action. I'm 14 myself and believe that at our age it is WAY too early to have these kind of committments and responsibilites in our lives and on our shoulders. trust me, I'm sure you're a beautiful, talented, and smart young girl. just like the rest of us so you need to think about this really hard and figure out what is best for you and your boyfriend. you have the whole rest of your lives to concieve. Lol, live your life to the fullest and then take on your adult duties when it's time. don't sell yourself short. you deserve to be a kid.

You can't be serious. How are you gonna buy his food, medicine, all that? That five bucks mummy and daddy give you for cleaning house? You are not suited for a kid, you are a kid yourself that has years of physical and mental developement to go before you can even say your ready for a baby. Your parents will wind up helping to take care of it and they won't like it. The boy's parents will also be livid. Your childhood will be spent tugging pennies to raise another. There are so many girls that are under 20 saying they're ready for a baby, and guess how many of them never make ends meet?

1st a 13 yr old boy and a 14 yr old girl shouldn't even b havin sex your still in middle school are you serious its a stupid decision both of you are not even old enough to have a job you still have breast milk on both of your breaths and being that you are so young your body is not even fully developed so you would b putting your child at risk of dying then if you do have a baby your not gonna take care of it your parents will so I guess you want your parents to deal with your problems and its most likely that the boy will leave you because its gonna get 2hard 4him the boy can always leave butchu cnt because your the mother so you would have to worry bout a job possibly a sick baby school and running after this stupid boy 4child support money which he is too young to pay so his parents would b on child support you a fool if you do it I guess you want a hard misserable life

well if you are absolutely sure that your boyfriend is going to stick with you forever then I would have to say...go get prego and dont tell your parents till after ... but remember that pregnacy is rough and giving birth is even harder... and dont forget to spread coco butter over you stomach so you dont get strech marks!

Please do not go and get pregnant, if you do get pregnant, put the child up for adoption, I'll adopt your child if that was the case.

im 16 and want to get pregnant but I know I wont be able to do it and I dont have a boyfriend and the childs life will be so hard and you gotta wait till your married so you know your with a guy or girl that will help you and stay with you, and have enough money. im getting a job and would have money but also my parents would killl me if I came home pregnant but I cant lie I really wish I could have a baby now but I gottaa wait and I'll except it and so should you cause your not ready even if you think you are. you will miss out on so much. and just regret everrything.

I am pregnant I am only 13 and trust me you will regret it listen to all the people that are telling you not to do it think about you future don't ruin your life like I did now I regret it like you said I am scared to tell my parents well I haven't told them yet because I know what I did was one of the stupidest thing ever now I am 2months pregnant and don't know what to do but if you want to have a good future and you want you kid to have a good future to dont get pregnant now wait a little longer=D