Is it normal to hate my mom's boyfriend?

im lisa im 15 and im having really hateful thoughts of my mothers boyfriends its disgusting hes a a phyco he lives downstairs from us and he acts liek he liveshere he come up hee with his little hissy fits and acts liek th ebossI wish he was dead and...

my moms always takign his side and whenver they have fights she gets all mad and takes it out on me and everyone else sorry !!!im sucha inconvience to you I cant take his anymore im moving in with my dad if possible!!!

trust me its normal to hate your moms boyfriend.I hated my moms boyfriend to I even threatened to kill him a few times.

I hate all my mums boyfriends there freaks!

If he acts like The Boss then I don't blame you. Maybe there could be a comment you can use to bring your mom to think why she even likes this guy.
Example: My brother's exgirlfriend was so bossy and she wanted to know everything including redialing the phone to see who he was talking to.
I came out and said one day yes, mommy dearest. This made my brother think of this psycho actress and the movie that was made after her Mommie Dearest. She was mean and hateful just like this exgirlfriend.
Shortly after my brother realized she was in charge of too much and he dumped her.
He went on to find a sweet girl and married her. Phew!

yes it is completly normal to hate your moms boyfriend.but you still have to be nice to him you could also try telling your mom how you feel.
sincerly, Advisor600

yes,I dislike my mom's boyfriend also.

Funnily enough, I have never met ONE person who said they LIKED ANYTHING about their mother's boyfriend. I've seen people like their fathers girlfriend a lot. But not the other way around. I wonder why. Maybe guys are more controlling and try to take over everything including how to bring up the kids. I don't like it when they assume father role.

Its normal I hate my moms boyfriend. when he gets bossy iam just like I've been livin here longer than you if you dont like it go back where you came from

yes I wouldnt like him either but atleast show some respect do it for your mom

Divorced older women are usually a lot more desperate and afraid to be alone - so they tend to get into relationships with any horrible man that shows them interest. This is usually appalling to their children who know that their mothers deserve so much more. Also, a whole new level of horror is added to the mix when that horrible man moves in, and imposes on the child's way of life. It is something I'm going through myself, at age 25! My mother needs to get her self esteem back and find someone better, but it seems like it's just impossible to talk sense to her.

Divorced older women are usually a lot more desperate and afraid to be alone - so they tend to get into relationships with any horrible man that shows them interest. This is usually appalling to their children who know that their mothers deserve so much more. Also, a whole new level of horror is added to the mix when that horrible man moves in, and imposes on the child's way of life. It is something I'm going through myself, at age 25! My mother needs to get her self esteem back and find someone better, but it seems like it's just impossible to talk sense to her.