How to get my boyfriend's mom to stop hating me?

My boyfriends mother hates my guts!
I have been dating him for 1 yr now all has been fine apart from the past 2 months!
I have come across this tention in her towards me!
I dont understand where its coming from!
She acts like a teenage high school b#!ch,...

b*#ch behind my back to peopl her age and mine.
Even to friends of mine who I think she thinks wont tell me what she says!
My boyfriend finally has seen what I have been going thru and says give it time it will blow over.
I have asked him to talk to her but he says he cant cause she is not the talking type. What do I do?

Even the boyfriends mate / family friend who is in his 40's is trying to break us up because he does not like me.
I was friends with his guy well before I met my boyfriend but since the boyfriends mum has decided to hate me he has to.
My boyfriend I feel terrible for I dont want to lose him!
But I dont want to split the family up.
I have text his mother saying I am not taking him away and will not split the familyy all she does is show these messages to her family and friends and makes a joke of me!
All I want is to be happy!
I have had the worst run in boyfriend's but I dont want to go thru another one!
What do I do!
How can I show her I am not a horrible person nor a family breaker?

Well, you're the one sounding like a teenage high school b#tch. Assuming your boyfriend doesn't come from a wacky family and his mother is a reasonable person like most adults are, I think you need to look in the mirror and figure out what's wrong with YOU. People don't hate other people for absolutely no reason.

And if your boyfriend's mum turns out to be an exception, it's wise to stay away from that family altogether. You don't want to be with someone who is genetically inclined to be insane.

hey ur situation is just like me but mine case is that here is male in the dominance i think u should be close to his family in such a way like u r the part of the family something that they will feel that u will always be wid them and also ask ur boyfreind what his mom like and try to do that so that she may be impress by that may be that will work.gud luck

The problem may be YOU. You said you have the worst run with boyfriends and don't want to go through another one. Look in the mirror, there may be some changes you need to make.

maybe its just YOU!