What to do while he's touching me?

In a couple of days, this guy wants to finger me. I want to. But I dont know what to do. Im just so nervous. I mean to have my pants off and just sit there while a guy sticks his fingerss up my…yahh you know. Do I just sit there? and what if it hurts? HELP ME!

Answer #1

hey :) you dont seem to sure about it if you dont feel your ready then dont do it…there will be loads more guys in your lifee

xx

Answer #2

You act like you like it (hopefully you actually DO like it)

Give a little whimper here… a little moan there… a little squirm etc.

Have you ever touched yourself? If not you should. You can never expect a man to bring you to orgasm until you’ve brought yourself to orgasm. (guys need a map… and you’re the tour guide… show the way)

Answer #3

thats discusting. you shouldnt even do that, he’s using you like a tool and will just throw you down and he might start to think that if wants anything he can just call you up for a booty call. if you go through with it, if he does anything uncomfortable or gets too aggressive just leave.

Answer #4

Well the fact that you came on the internet for advice and the fact that you’re scared, proves you are not yet ready or mature enough to do things like that. Just stick to kissing.

Answer #5

pretty much you have to let the guy run the show but do things like kiss him if he is kissing you etc. also someone said to me that when they did something wrong to their girl she just got up, got dressed and left. make it a privelage for men to touch you

Answer #6

Are you in a relationship with “this guy”? If all he wants is to get physical with you, (which is all it sounds like) then he is just using you! He doesnt like you, or even care about you, because if he did. he would respect you! He is only seeing you as an object, not as a person. Many times once the sex act is over…you become nothing more than a dish rag, ready to be tossed aside.

Dont lower your standards just because a guy wants you for sexual purposes, because girls who put out, “are a dime a dozen”. Save it for someone who will honor, and handle you with gentle care!

Answer #7

touch him

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