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I have had a crush on a guy at my college for like 8 months, I've noticed him looking at me and trying to get my attention and he tries to smile but why hasnt he made a move? I tried making a move myself but thats not going to happen period. im really shy and I get nervous and back out EVERYTIME. my friends co-worker kinda knows him so on monday my friend is going to tell her co-worker to talk to my crush. but dont know if it will work out? you think its a good idea? other options are: leave a note on his car saying "I'd really like to get to know you, if this feeling is mutual give me a call" or have my friend email him through his work email? I really like him but it is starting to hurt to not be able to be with him and talk to him. im not the type that can just walk upto a guy and start talking to him, cant do it. so I have to do it indirectly, not face to face. do you think asking someone else to do it for me will screw up everything? please comments from anyone appreciated! I'll keep you all posted on what happens.
ok well I am just going to say it he doesnt like you if that is his reaction and he still hasnt talked to you he doesnt like you... sorry but it is the truth and anyone can see that!! and if you like him SOOO much then talk to him when he is alone.. and dont pull that"he is nver alone" cause he will be at sometime! if he has a phone and you have a phone txt him dont act wierd and PLEASE PLEASE dont keep saying "sooo.." that is a definet turn off! :/.. before you talk to him make sure you look pretty... think about things to say. and if he does have a phone get his number from a friend and txt him and say heeyy!! then when he replies say OH!! wrong number sorry hahah wait who is this? he answers his name say do I know you?? he answers I dont know what is your name..?? you say your name ...he says maybe I dont know... you aske what school does he go to... he answers and says u... you say that where!! we go to school together and just keep talking to him and for the people that say that it is better in person to put in a good impression they are LIARSSS!!! because you have more time to think!!! hahah:) but always remember be your self because if he thinks you are super cool but then meets you in person he might be dissapointed because you lied... the reason I know all of this is because I have been through it and thats how I am with the guy today!!
_kylie:)
I have the same problem. Well not exactly though...You see, I had a crush named Joseph D. ever since 4th grade and my friend Joseph C. told my crush that I liked him. My crush only said WHAT?! when my f-friend told my crush. My crush didn-n't say anything to me since that day. Besides, we have never talked to each other ONCE. Not even once! Maybe he's shy or he's trying to not let me to like him. I really don't know that much about him though...I only see him at luch period and P.E...I don't know if my crush still thinks I like him... I want him to know I still like him though...I'll tell you what he did around me so far...: 1.He looks at me sometimes... 2.I think he did a prank with his friends at the boy's bathroom 3.He was acting weird at gymnastics one day with one of his friends... 4.I think he either sometimes spies or looks at me a lot...
I guess that's all he did but I wish he liked me...We could eat lunch and talk together...Hang out...But that's only my wishes. I really want this to happen for my birthday...I don't know...
if you're in college, stop these middle school (mayyybe you can push it to highschool) antics! Suck it up and go talk to him, if you really like him he'll be worth possibly embarassing yourself for. You could be missing out just because you're acting like you would have 4 years ago! And if he doesn't like you, better to know now than later and once and for all- get it OVER WITH.
just wanted to update you guys...my friend's co-worker said he has seen my crush with a girl. he has somebody. im so upset that he led me on and he has a gf. i guess its a good thing i didnt make a fool of myself by asking him out. why would somebody do that!?!!
Hey man, I'm in the same boat as you. I've been in love with this guy for 2 years and have yet to speak up. I see him with skanky girlfriend after girlfriend, each one even less deserving of him than the last. How has he been leading you on?
I think you should just tell him like that! He likes you, so, what's the matter with that??? He can send you a love letter or something!!! Just don't be shy!!! It works!!!
tell someone who is his friends !! that you belive and then cross your two fingers and hope that your wish will come true !!...