How can i tell my mom that i'm not a virgin?

OKAY IM 13 YEARS OLD AND I ALWAYS TELL MY MOM EVERYTHING SHE LETS ME HAVE BOYFRIENDS AND LETS THEM SPEND THE NIGHT BUT THATS NOT THE POINT I AM SO SCARED TO TELL MY MOM THAT IM NOT A VIRGIN I DONT KNOW HOW SHES going to FLIP OUT I MEAN I LOVE MY MOM SO...

MUCH AND I DONT want to HURT HER HEART BUT CAN I GET SOME ADVICE AND MY BOYFRIEND WANTS A CHILD BUT JUST NOT RIGHT NOW BECAUSE WHERE BOTH 13 YEARS OLD

I agree the sooner, the better. Then at least she can get you some birth control.

Well 13 yrs old it not a time to be thinking about children at all. You still have alot of growing up to do, and schooling to get finished!

Your mom cant be too surprised that you are not a virgin, since she allows your boyfriend to stay the night with you.

Just tell her right away, and get it over with. The sooner the better!

Personally, I don't know what your Mom is thinking allowing a 13 yr old to have her boyfriend spend the night !..what you're doing is wrong..I would start doing right things in my life and making better choices..wrong choices don't come without consequences..if you want to watch the disappointment in her face and break her heart, tell her..your choice..sad, very sad.

i just wanna know r u from Pleasant Grove,Al cause u look familiar and da pic look like it waz taken at PGHS in front of the lunchroom??

let me know how u r doing in the future, love you like A sistah!!

A.Bryant

Dear regardless,
Well you know we will say shame on your mother for allowing your boyfriend to stay. What a very bad decision on her part. Keeping that in mind you also have made very bad choices. First you need to see a doctor NOW...if you need your mother to make the appointment then you may have to tell her. You also have to stop having sex until you spoke with a doctor and had testing for STDS and to see if you are pregnant. The doctor will give you birth control information and steer you in the right direction if you are pregnant. Nothing is 100% and having unprotected sex is just very immature and dangerous. You are not ready to be parents since you cannot make proper decisions for yourself.
Sue....good luck

domnt tell you'r mom right now wait until you'r 18 and when you move out then tell her! (lol)