How do I finger a girl?

im 13 and my girlfriend is 15 and I want too finger her well she wants me too finger her and I dont know how to ...can someone help me..

Dude I'm 25 & yes its best too learn from experience but practically everything I have learned has been from lesbian porns man TRUST ME you can't go wrong try watching & learning from that before you go diving in no pun intended lol have fun little man =)

ok first of all DONT FINGER HER IF YOU DONT WANT TO!!!1

ok to actually finger a girl start off by rubbing/massaging her vagina OUTSIDE the trousers/knickers whatever! then go into the trousers and you can do a mixture of things but you first need to make her wet to actually go up her vagina. you could rub/stroke the top of the lips of the vagina. also an amazing turn on spot is just where the outerlips start there is a nerve which you can rub from side to side or in circles but sometimes this can be a bit painful so remember to pay attention to her. also at the top(just inside the vagina) there is skin that is a bit like the skin on your forehead. if you rub this in circles this is also a great turn on spot! be careful when actually going inside the vagina and dont jump in straight away with two fingers as you dont know how tight she is! and the most important thing is to be gentle! the vagina is a sensitive place and if you have long nails make sure you cut them so you dont stratch her. and always remember to pay attention to her to make sure your not putting her in any pain etc.

good luck! hope this helped! x

A 15 yr old should NOT be asking a 13 yr old to finger her. You first need to grow up alittle more, and understand what you are doing.

heyy im 13 tooo =]] haha anyway dont do anything you do not want to do!!! First if she has a skirt on lift up her skirt pull her underwear down and stick your finger in her vagina hole then move your finger up and down and twirl it around.. if shes wearing jeans do the same thing but take the pants off

yhh mate what you do put ya hands down a and just rub ntill she goes wet thn put ya finger or 2 into the first hole ya came around slowly in and out and rub thr top 4 the best thing.

Guy - 15

I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT IT IS WORTH READING!

The first thing you want to do when you finger a girl is to make sure that she is turned on and wet. A good thing to do is to kiss her on the lips, neck and/or nibble on her ears/neck (if she likes it), feel her breasts and massager her nipples with your fingers or mouth.

Once she is turned on, as evilpinkpunkfairy said, play with her snatch over her pants/panties. once you are sure that she is wet you can pull down her panties (or put your hand inside, depending on your situation) and play with her lips and clit. some say that the clitoris is hard to find but this is rarely the case and if you know where you are looking (about a half inch to an inch above the urethra) it is not hard to locate.

Massage her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit. Try to avoid touching the clit directly with your fingers (tongue is ok) but rather rub the hood which covers the clit around in a circular motion, up and down or side to side.

Once you are sure that your girl is REALLY wet, it will be safe and easy to insert ONE finger into her snatch. Be careful which way you push your finger as the canal may not travel in the direction that you expect it to. Be very gentle for the first few strokes, and make sure that you are constantly reassuring her if she is nervous. Take note of any body language which indicates discomfort and stop if she asks or if it seems that she is not enjoying it. As you are fingering her, keep building pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get rough or that your fingers do not become as fast as pistons, as many girls will not like this. you can then move on to more than one finger, however if your girl is a virgin and it is her first time getting fingered you should be careful not to break her hymen (thin membrane covering the inside of the vagina) as this will cause pain and discomfort for her and the situation may become awkward.

If you can find the g-spot, a small walnut sized piece of flesh located on the top wall of the vagina about two inches inside, run your fingers over it and apply pressure. CAUTION: IF YOU HAVE NOT DISCUSSED THIS WITH YOUR GIRL BEFOREHAND, MAKE SURE YOU REASSURE HER AS PRESSURE ON THE G-SPOT CAN CAUSE A GIRL TO FEEL AS THOUGH SHE HAS TO GO TO THE TOILET.

If your girl seems uncomfortable throughout any of this, reassure her by keeping dialogue open, kissing her mouth, neck, breasts and stomach and making sure that she feels safe.

This is about all I have for now, but remember, these are only guidelines. Different women enjoy different techniques, and although it may be awkward, the best way to find out what a girl likes is to ASK HER.

Thanks for listening, if there are any questions that you would like to ask directly, you can email me at Fun mail me

im 13 and I've never fingered a girl before. but me and my girlfriend are really close and when ever I nibble on the side of her neck she turned on and almost has an orga*sm

hope it helps..

ah...young love :D
'Hold My Hand' by New Found Glory... listen to that... it will make you think of your girlfriend I swear thatz what I do :D

I know what your talkin about I have the same prob.

bud your a little young to do anything why dont you two just makeout thats was a big deal when I was 13 which wasent to long ago only 4 years so dont say im old school and times have changed anyway good luck

dude I agree with every one who saus you to young, g take things slow! you r 13! but any way its your choice bye

don't just put it in and out, it's least pleasurable that way. Move it around when it's up there hahah :D

You finger a girl by sticking your finger in and out of her vagina.

Your too young. Plain and simple. And you should be doing something like that when your older not at 13.

EWWW DAMONW27 you little perv!!! your way to young to do that

im 21 , I have a girlfriend since 2 years and still not kissed her yet. she's too strict about touching before marriage.

how do you guy manage girls to open their legs for you at 13 ??

oh my god. no 13 or 15 year old should be fingering anyone. GROSS. You're a KID still!!! Grow into puberity first!!!

Any sort of touching in this manner should be reserved for when you are old enough to understand what you're doing and why. Your hormones are working on over drive and you may find it difficult to control yourself. CONTROL yourself anyways. Before you know it you may find that if you don't wait that either you or your girlfriend might get a disease or she may get pregnant. A romantic relationship does not have to involve any sort of touching like this at your age. Take your time. Save yourself for the special lady in your life, bud.
Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. Enjoy being a kid. When you find that special someone and you do have a physical relationship under the bonds of marriage you will find that it was well worth the wait.

ure way to young mate no way how can you finger a girl at 13 ure nt even developed!!

if she said that then you should dump her!!!

This is quite possibly the most immature question I've ever seen. Grow up a little and maybe then you'll be able to figure it out on your own.

take your finger and gentily stick it up her vagina hole. but first make a deal with her if you finger her she will give you head

haha wow this is some funny stuff.

well im a lesbo so I've had plenty of practice.. but im not going to tell you what to do cuzz im not encouraging a 13 year old but umm fingering a girl is not just putting you fingers in her & pulling them out & thats kinda boring.

but if you fingered her an ate her out at the same time they like it more..

why is a 15 year old asking a 13 year old to do that in the first place thats stupid

Wel wel wel I prefer it when you move it bout a bit when da man is acually in der If you get me (once your fingas are in just wriggle em bout a lil bit) Lol! Also sex is very good!! :D

But your waii 2 yung 4 that OK!!

And if you dont want to finga her... DONT!!!

She aint wurf it if all she want to do is dirty lil fings wiv you I means she going to b 16 when your 14???

just mke sure she da 1 b 4 you do any fin oK!!!

Much love__CHARLOTTE

wow little man...hmmm...when I was 13 I was at home watching cartoons...maybe you should try the same...before you wind up being a 14 year old daddy...

KID don't listen 2 this lot your not to young but I do agree on the not lettin her force u ... DUDE do it when you feel good and ready. lovinlife has a good coment just get her wet to start then take it slow see what she likes ask her . dude im 16 and I was doin stuff like that when I was your age but mayb things are different now lol ... dude do what you want 2 its your choise ... but start slow don't rush in and put 2-3 fingers in start off with 1 and slow dude gotta run ... REMEBER ITS your CHOISE!

k, yeah buddy you are way too young for those actions. Secondly, yeah I agree that its wrong that she is even asking you for it. If you feel uncomfortable tell her no the worst she will do is break up with you.

dud give up you to young im 19 and I should know

the best way to finger a girl is to probably rub the top of the vagina first to get her wet then start giving her a full on rub then just stick one finger in and wiggle it around a bit then when you are about to take it out hook it slightly and tickle hey clit the repeat and just add more fingers. yea its rad being 13 and fingering a few chicks. dude there is no way your to young cause I first fingered a chick on my 13th birthday. trust me they love it. im now only 14 and she is 15 and we are still 2getha. (second mrs)...haha just go for it...

dude there is no definite way to finger a girl. different girls like different things. some like it when you put your fingers in and some like it when you play with there clit. it is always best to get her horny and wanting for you to do it. this is easy, you can just kiss her on the libs or neck but thats not all. you also need to use your hands at this point. you can put your hand on her leg and slowly and gently move it further and further up towards her vagina. then from outside her trousers start to stroke her vagina. then you can put your hand down her panties for the real thing. try both the clit and inserting your fingers and see which gives her more pleasure (which ones she gives a more positive reaction to). after a while of 'experimenting' she will slowly reach something called a 'sexual climax' or an org**m. this is the part that she will get the most pleasure out of, and this is when to exploit the way you found best to pleasure her earlier on.and thats basically it.

dude there is no definite way to finger a girl. different girls like different things. some like it when you put your fingers in and some like it when you play with there clit. it is always best to get her horny and wanting for you to do it. this is easy, you can just kiss her on the libs or neck but thats not all. you also need to use your hands at this point. you can put your hand on her leg and slowly and gently move it further and further up towards her vagina. then from outside her trousers start to stroke her vagina. then you can put your hand down her panties for the real thing. try both the clit and inserting your fingers and see which gives her more pleasure (which ones she gives a more positive reaction to). after a while of 'experimenting' she will slowly reach something called a 'sexual climax' or an org**m. this is the part that she will get the most pleasure out of, and this is when to exploit the way you found best to pleasure her earlier on.and thats basically it.

hahahha.I had a boyfriend who would keep on begging me to do 'stuff' with him and I kept on saying no.it works dude.he got too excited and yeah.did something while I was standing there.pretty gross.I of course laughed and ran.its fun messing with him.hahahahhaha.yeah I know this was no help but I broke up with him and he got soo mad that he threatened to kill me.pretty bad.I know

hahahha.I had a boyfriend who would keep on begging me to do 'stuff' with him and I kept on saying no.it works dude.he got too excited and yeah.did something while I was standing there.pretty gross.I of course laughed and ran.its fun messing with him.hahahahhaha.yeah I know this was no help but I broke up with him and he got soo mad that he threatened to kill me.pretty bad.I know

wow,13 reminding me of my nephew. thought I was going to haveta kick his butt,lol. but seriously, you're too young right now to be doing that sort of stuff. I'm not just saying this bc im a girl either. first of all 4 play leads to intercourse,lol. you should just stick to going to the movies and making out deal. be careful if shes already wanting you to finger her, shes going to want more. thats bad news for you. bunch of girls rushing into getting preg at the age of 16,hope shes not like that for your sake if your together for a while. and wait to hit puberty lol. dont do any thing you would regret. most people regret a lot of stuff, even when they get older.

woa, thats terrible, but you might want to do it in a pool.

well she must be realy ugly 2 be going out wid a 13 yr old bbe, no offence.
it just luks like she cnt get a bloke and she shunt be asking you 2 do that anyway.
only do it if ya want to, but if ya don't no how then dats kinda sayin you aint ready drl. x

Guy_14 There is this girl who I like when ever im with her we make out I want to step it up. Yes I may be young for sexual things but I want some advise on fingureing I don't want to cause her pain in anyway.

lol... he threatened to kill you? nice work!

Take your time son...you are to young for this type of action..remember for every action there is a reaction and that reaction just might be a baby. Use the right head to for postive thinking.. Diva Granny

for all you people who say hes to young I disagree I've been doing that since I was 6

At 15, your girlriend is old enough to be wanting to do this sort of stuff, but not with a 13 year old - its almost child abuse. What is wrong with her!!
You should get a girlfriend on your own level, one who is 12 or 13.

yall are all fags. your all sitting around talking about fingering. I dont think yall have never finger a girl before and your trying to tell someone how

hey dude just stick them in and basicly just play around, have fun with it

hey dude, id help you but I screwed up bigtime. dont do this unless you really feel comfortable.

Good Luck

Out of all these responses I didnt see anyone say anything about you washing your hands before you stick them in her vagina.I could have missed it but personally I think you're too young to even be engaging in that type of behavior or to understand the full dynamics of it. But I also understand that kids are going to do what they want to do. So if you do decide to finger her, make sure your hands are clean so that she does not get a vaginal infection that can be very serious and painful.

Y IN THE WORLD IZ A 15YEAR OLD asking A 13YR OLD 2 FINGER HER??? why DONT you NOT FINGER HER IF you DONT WaNT 2? do you want 2 finger her?? also, you only 13. you dont need 2 do all that. focus on important things

If your uncomfortable with it(which you obviously are to be turning to the internet for advice) don't do it. At your age relationships have very short life spans and no meaning. If you two are serious about your relationship then she will understand that you are not ready for that step. Kiss and experiment if you both agree upon it. Don't force her or let her for you into doing something that your both not comfortable with. Good luck and I hope you make the right choice.

1) make sure you dont hurt her
2) defo wash your hands and cut nails
3) try and like kiss her or something whilst fingering her
4) dont do it if you dont want to
5) if your relationship does go further, do not get her preg it will ruin your entire life. you wont be a ble to go to school and get educated to get that good job you want and you will be stuffed moneywise for your life
6)have fun ( :

hey im 15..and hey..its your life after all..do what you think is right..weather that is making her happy or yourself..if you want to then thats great..I have a boyfriend who is 17 nearly 18..and all he asks me for is sex.sex.sex.and to suck him off.and for him to 'pleasure me' I give it him because I dont want to lose him...because he means the world to me..but right start off with making her WET thats very important, try rubbing her thigh, and kissing her lips then her kneck..while rubbing her thigh then rub her knickers, and slowing go into her knickers, and rub her clit...keep kissing her..and then find the *hole*.and insert one finger..and if she likes it...put 2 in..see how she feels and carry it on till she wants you to stop..ok..I hope this help mate..have fun..cya.xxx

PERVERT your TOO YOUNG!!!U have your whole life ahead of u, shes too old for u

Wow 13..
Stop trying to grow up too fast.. next thing you'll know you'll be on here asking how to fu** her and stuff..
Your just too young. And you need to find a girl more your age.. Girls at the age of 15, me being one, are often addicted to sexual contact. You being as young as you are dont need that right now.

what the f*ck! your 13... she doesnt want you to finger her she wants to fuc

dont bother she is to old for you and you are much to young to think about that stuff right now

First of all this can be very painful if she isn't already sexually active...you need to make sure SHE understands what fingering is all about.

holy crap your freakin kidding me right your too young and I'm 14!!! your a little perv!!!

Everyone realizes that this is a 13 year old hormone driven boy right?
Why wouldnt he want to do it?
No matter how much you tell him hes too young,
he'll probably do it.
None of the guys I know would turn that down when they were 13.

sicko

righty o. firsty there is no right or wrong.
and oh! every girl is differant, in the way they react to what you do.

so what I do is get her to guild you into what feels good for her. (I know she may look weird at you for starters) but anyways. if you dont know. get her to show you. then you take over. the only way I learned. (and this was me over a few relationships)

I know it may sound fearly lame but it is the only way you will find out what works for her.

after a bit you know exactly how she will react. to curtain things you do. then you and her can start to enjoy yourselfs.

enjoy!

Wow...
Thinking about this is just crazy! You should be
focused on other things, if a 15-year-old is asking
you to finger her, you should probley get out of the
relationship. Thats just weird, if she wants the
attention that bad, she has two hands of her own.
Don't get into that stuff, your way to young and it
can effect you a lot in the future. Be smart.
I hope you make the right decision.

dude, stick with skaterboarding. O_O way better.

wow your only 13 dont do anyfin2 her if you dont want2. shes 15 and so much more sexually developed you are stil learning! wait a while a year or so maybe then you wil understnd

look it up on the computer thats what I do

Well I'd say the only 2 things I'd be worried about is your hands being clean and it not hurting. Your not to young, my brother is 4 years old and hes already trying to get ppls pants off =/ Do what ever you want to do, I dont think anyone can stop you anyways, but personally I think a 15 year old shouldnt be asking you to finger her, its a little weird.

you better mean turning her in for breaking the law!!! You are 13! Unless you want to end up with a baby you will watch where you put another little body part as well..and where is your mama junior...keeper muttering to herself...I am always over shoulder with mine...join a soccer team!!!

For 1 thing I think that if you're young and getting laid/laying that you'll be abled to decide that it's not as great as everyone else thinks it is so that until you really DO want to get laid then you'll also have some experience in the feild, but info like that from me is simple... 2 fingers in and out. You can go with the fancy rubbing and sh** but that's your choice man. Sex is like art... you tend to get creative with the most basic of things.

Practise on yourself...but remember to wash yours hands afterwards Nahhh...ignore that...warm up an apple pie

stick your finger in her vagina!

stick your finger in her vagina!

o hell. First play with her a bit.then start rubing her vigina a bit wara wara every onels told you already. But be sure to make u`r finger wet preverebly with spit before gowing any ware near the vigina inside. And if she wants it then give it to her just make sure of every littel detail and take her in consederation. I am sure you wil love it as well.

STOP ANSWERING THE POOR KID I BET HE HAS MORE THAN ENOUGH ALREADY!!! ...poor poor kid hormones must suck

AND EVERYONE 13 15 not that bige difff

um... ya I think its fine I mean im 13 and have a girlfriend we make out and crap. but yea I havent even thought about fingering HER yet but I finger myself and use a vibrator so ya chilaxe people!!!

GRow up man

Dont tease them as it willl be Eve teasing for them

If you have to ask then your not ready - Give yourself a break and stop trying so hard - Stick with a kiss and a hug for now

TRUST ME I've BEEN FINGERED AND IT DOESNT FEEL RITE

LISTEN, HONEY YOU SHOULD BE FOCUSING ON SCHOOL AND NOT DOING NASTY STUFF WITH A GIRL. HAVE RESPECT FOR YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND YOU HAVE PLENTY OF TIME TO LEARN ALL OF THIS STUFF. PUT YOUR MIND IN YOUR SCHOOL WORK INSTEAD OF DOING STUFF LIKE THAT. NOT BEING MEAN BUT YOUR WAY TO YOUNG. I HAVE A 13 YEAR OLD MY SELF AND SHE BETTER NOT EVEN THINK OF STUFF LIKE THAT TILL SHE IS 21. PLEASE WAIT TILL YOU GET OLDER AND LEARN MORE ABOUT LIFE...

pretty much what lovin life said is the best answer you are probably going to get, just don't go in too quickly and I would advise not doing it if she is a virgin because like he said this will cause uncomfortable pain and possibly an awkward situation. Rub your finger through the lips, (like a hot dog in a bun) until she is nice and horny and wet, than start moving into the vagina. I would start out with the index finger, since it is smaller than the middle. once you have loosened her up enough to finger her comfortably, take out the index, and put in the middle and begin the 'fingering motion..' I have only done a couple chicks, and their g spots were in different places, but once you find your girls g spot... she is all yours!

well put them in there and bend them upward!!! because that will rub her g-spot and she will go wild

stick your finger in her vagina. then rub smoothly. and yall are on crack. he's not to young. I was 13 when I first had sex with a guy. and he was 16. but whe