How do i finger a girl?

im 13 and my girlfriend is 15 and I want too finger her well she wants me too finger her and I dont know how to ...can someone help me..

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ok first of all DONT FINGER HER IF YOU DONT WANT TO!!!1

ok to actually finger a girl start off by rubbing/massaging her vagina OUTSIDE the trousers/knickers whatever! then go into the trousers and you can do a mixture of things but you first need to make her wet to actually go up her vagina. you could rub/stroke the top of the lips of the vagina. also an amazing turn on spot is just where the outerlips start there is a nerve which you can rub from side to side or in circles but sometimes this can be a bit painful so remember to pay attention to her. also at the top(just inside the vagina) there is skin that is a bit like the skin on your forehead. if you rub this in circles this is also a great turn on spot! be careful when actually going inside the vagina and dont jump in straight away with two fingers as you dont know how tight she is! and the most important thing is to be gentle! the vagina is a sensitive place and if you have long nails make sure you cut them so you dont stratch her. and always remember to pay attention to her to make sure your not putting her in any pain etc.

good luck! hope this helped! x

A 15 yr old should NOT be asking a 13 yr old to finger her. You first need to grow up alittle more, and understand what you are doing.

heyy im 13 tooo =]] haha anyway dont do anything you do not want to do!!! First if she has a skirt on lift up her skirt pull her underwear down and stick your finger in her vagina hole then move your finger up and down and twirl it around.. if shes wearing jeans do the same thing but take the pants off

yhh mate what you do put ya hands down a and just rub ntill she goes wet thn put ya finger or 2 into the first hole ya came around slowly in and out and rub thr top 4 the best thing.

Guy - 15

I KNOW THIS IS LONG BUT IT IS WORTH READING!

The first thing you want to do when you finger a girl is to make sure that she is turned on and wet. A good thing to do is to kiss her on the lips, neck and/or nibble on her ears/neck (if she likes it), feel her breasts and massager her nipples with your fingers or mouth.

Once she is turned on, as evilpinkpunkfairy said, play with her snatch over her pants/panties. once you are sure that she is wet you can pull down her panties (or put your hand inside, depending on your situation) and play with her lips and clit. some say that the clitoris is hard to find but this is rarely the case and if you know where you are looking (about a half inch to an inch above the urethra) it is not hard to locate.

Massage her outer lips and use some of her wetness to rub her clit. Try to avoid touching the clit directly with your fingers (tongue is ok) but rather rub the hood which covers the clit around in a circular motion, up and down or side to side.

Once you are sure that your girl is REALLY wet, it will be safe and easy to insert ONE finger into her snatch. Be careful which way you push your finger as the canal may not travel in the direction that you expect it to. Be very gentle for the first few strokes, and make sure that you are constantly reassuring her if she is nervous. Take note of any body language which indicates discomfort and stop if she asks or if it seems that she is not enjoying it. As you are fingering her, keep building pace and strength, but make sure that you do not get rough or that your fingers do not become as fast as pistons, as many girls will not like this. you can then move on to more than one finger, however if your girl is a virgin and it is her first time getting fingered you should be careful not to break her hymen (thin membrane covering the inside of the vagina) as this will cause pain and discomfort for her and the situation may become awkward.

If you can find the g-spot, a small walnut sized piece of flesh located on the top wall of the vagina about two inches inside, run your fingers over it and apply pressure. CAUTION: IF YOU HAVE NOT DISCUSSED THIS WITH YOUR GIRL BEFOREHAND, MAKE SURE YOU REASSURE HER AS PRESSURE ON THE G-SPOT CAN CAUSE A GIRL TO FEEL AS THOUGH SHE HAS TO GO TO THE TOILET.

If your girl seems uncomfortable throughout any of this, reassure her by keeping dialogue open, kissing her mouth, neck, breasts and stomach and making sure that she feels safe.

This is about all I have for now, but remember, these are only guidelines. Different women enjoy different techniques, and although it may be awkward, the best way to find out what a girl likes is to ASK HER.

Thanks for listening, if there are any questions that you would like to ask directly, you can email me at Fun mail me

im 13 and I've never fingered a girl before. but me and my girlfriend are really close and when ever I nibble on the side of her neck she turned on and almost has an orga*sm

hope it helps..

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I know what your talkin about I have the same prob.

bud your a little young to do anything why dont you two just makeout thats was a big deal when I was 13 which wasent to long ago only 4 years so dont say im old school and times have changed anyway good luck

dude i agree with every one who saus you to young, g take things slow! u r 13! but any way its your choice bye

don't just put it in and out, it's least pleasurable that way. Move it around when it's up there hahah :D

You finger a girl by sticking your finger in and out of her vagina.

Your too young. Plain and simple. And you should be doing something like that when your older not at 13.

EWWW DAMONW27 you little perv!!! your way to young to do that

oh my god. no 13 or 15 year old should be fingering anyone. GROSS. You're a KID still!!! Grow into puberity first!!!

Any sort of touching in this manner should be reserved for when you are old enough to understand what you're doing and why. Your hormones are working on over drive and you may find it difficult to control yourself. CONTROL yourself anyways. Before you know it you may find that if you don't wait that either you or your girlfriend might get a disease or she may get pregnant. A romantic relationship does not have to involve any sort of touching like this at your age. Take your time. Save yourself for the special lady in your life, bud.
Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. Enjoy being a kid. When you find that special someone and you do have a physical relationship under the bonds of marriage you will find that it was well worth the wait.

ure way to young mate no way how can u finger a girl at 13 ure nt even developed!!

if she said that then you should dump her!!!

This is quite possibly the most immature question I've ever seen. Grow up a little and maybe then you'll be able to figure it out on your own.

take your finger and gentily stick it up her vagina hole. but first make a deal with her if you finger her she will give you head