How come it only takes one person to wreck your life?

Hoe come it only takes one person to wreck your life?
Confidence, self esteem, emotinal well being gone .
All because of one person, beacause of one stupid comment.
And eeverything what you knew can be gone like that?
All beacause on 1 idiot?

only if you let it,, if they havent taking you then you have not bin defeated

You're so right -- sometimes we can't see the forest for the trees.

I had a short story published a few years ago and I got many positive comments. Which one upset me? Of course the one and only bad one. It's not rational at all, and life isnt a popularity contest, but even knowing and believing that... that f---g SOB still got to me, LOL and even thinking about it now, is quite irksome!

Andy is right when he says we can be our own worst enemies. Very wise and good to remember that!

I dont know but it happens a lot to me 1 mean word and im sad again not so lol