I lost a good friend.. how can I get him to come back to me?

this is very long I know.. but PLEASEEE read.. I need advice as quick as possible :( so I had this one really close friend, and we always faught, and things some times would get really bad.. it has been about 10 days since I have even talked to him :( we got into a fight last saturday, and he deleted me off of msn, he broke his cell phone, so I cant even text him or any thing.. he wont even look at me in the halls! I met him in noveber, and he was going through a really diffucult time of his life. and he really just needed some one to listen to him. I was always there for him no matter what, we got really close, and I felt like I could tell him any thing. he used to tell me all about his troubles, and it seemed like he was telling the truth when he said that I was one of the best things in his life at the time. anyways.. so I would always listen to his stories, and try to give him advice, and just try to take things off of his mind, by being a good friend… but reasontly when things started getting hard for me, he told me that I was being to negative, and that things in his life were finally good, and that he didnt want to deal with me and my drama, all I wanted was to have some one to talk to.. I mean, I have other tons of other friends, and a few really good ones that I talk to a lot as well. but knew that none of them would understand. not like he would… now that he is not around any more .. I feel so lonely a lot of the time, and feel like there is some thing missing. I dont know what to do. he made it clear that he didnt want me in his life, but what if I still REALLY REALLY want him in mine?!? I dont know what to do, we had gotten in lots of fights before, but they always lasted only like a day or two. I would always be the bigger person and appologies, even if I thought that he was the one being immature, or what ever. I was going to wait it out this time, wait for him to say sorry to me… but he isnt going to. and I dont know what to do. I dont want to say that im sorry, beacuse im not. I just wish that he knew how much he meant to me, should I just give in and appologies (for nothing :S) so that I can get him back into my life? I know it seems stupid that I even want him back as a friend. but no one understands just how much he means to me :( what should I do?!?!?!?!?!

Answer #1

No its not cheesy…it would be better to talk in person but for a start you can do that…at least you’re making an effort and he’ll see that…sometimes people can be a bit ignorant and refuse to see their mistakes but I guess you should make the first move and see how that turns out. All the points you mentioned above are good so do it.

Answer #2

You know exactly what to say because you wrote it in the question above. So just relay that same thing to him (omitting a few parts of course!)

Answer #3

Find some way to talk to him (maybe through another friend since you can’t call or message him) and then tell him how you feel…If thats your good friend then do what it takes because in this life true friends are very hard to find.

Answer #4

Just do it

Answer #5

Just do it

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