Convince my mom that am not having sex

How do I convince my mom that am not having sex with my boyfriend. She wont believe me, the worst part of it all is that she gives me a pregnancy test every month... How can I get her to trust me!!!
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ammit it to her and say mom trust me im not GOOD LUCK PEACE OUT CHICKA

WELL 1ST you SHUD REALLY SIT HER DOWN AND SAY MOM I AM NOT HAVING SEX..AND THAT you are SCARING ME because 1 DAY I WANT TO BE ABLE TO COME TO AND TELL you that SOMETHING IS BOTHERING ME OR YES I AM HAVING SEX. BUT IF YOU KEEP ACCUSING ME OF SOMETHING HOW CAN I TELL you ANYTHING. LET HER KNOW HOW YOU FEEL. WHAT IF YOU ACCUSED HER OF SOMETHING THAT WAS NOT GOING ON OR PRESESNT SHE WUD FEEL HOW YOU FEELING. DON'T LET IT GET TO YOU... JUST SAY WHAT3V3R. IF you KNOW IT AIN'T TRUE , IT AIN'T TRUE. YOUR MOM LOVES YOU AND MAYBE SHE IS SAYING THIS because SHE DON'T WANT YOU DOING IT AND STAY FOCUS. SO AS LONG AS SHE KEEP SAYING THIS THE MORE YOU going to TRY TO PROOVE HER WRONG. I THINK SHE KNOWS YOUR NOT HAVING SEX, SHE'S JUST PLAYING A LIL GAME TO TEST U. BUT DEFENITLY DON'T GET MAD ABOUT SOMETHING LIKE THAT. IT AIN'T WORTH IT.

I agree. Tell her that the pregnancy tests are a bit OTT. I dont think I would ever have thought to do that to my daughter. This is how parents and children lose trust in each other.

If your mom is being this absurd, it's time to rebel. Tell her if she really had your best interests at heart, she'd give you condoms instead of a pregnancy test, and just refuse to take the test.

let her know that it's time to step back, and to trust you as her daughter and credit you on the good, smart young lady she has raised, turn around and credit her for being there and caring for you. if you can point out that you appreciate her attention but it's time to focus on other things. If you one day fall in a situation that you need to talk to her you are going to feel scared or make you feel insecure. Parents are either giving too much attention or not enough help her to balance it out.

Dear dannyboo,
There is a reason your mother doesn't trust you...perhaps you broke her trust in the past. There is also a reason why your mother is in fear of you getting pregnant over doing drugs...she isn't giving you drug testing so it seems the fear is pregnancy. Perhaps she knows families that have been put in turmoil because this happened to them? We all have reasons for what we do and perhaps you need to find out her reasons. In the mean time taking the test is not a life threatening event so bide by her rules and find out why she feels the way she does.
Sue...good luck

Ok the pregnancy test thing is a little weird, if I was that worried about my kid I'd make them go on birth control (although hopefully it would never come to that point). You really need to sit her down and ask her where this is coming from, she's being mildly irrational here and you may want to find out why...

your mom is being a complete nut. and when you do start having sex this is sad because you should be able to go to her and get on a birthcontroll. when you do make sure you do get on somthing. tell her you are not if you arnt. and tell her that when you do you will come to her and make a plan to not get pregnant