Getting your cherry popped ..

does getting your cherry popped hurt ? wouldnt it be embarrasing
if you started bleeding everywhere !? :| ... how old
do girls usually start fingering themselves at ?

Hrm..Gettin your Cherry popped doesnt hurt like people says it does..and you dont bleed a lot..Its just little blood spots..And girls start fingering there selfs at atleast age 12 Or a little older..Bit I never tried it=/..im not normal lol..

When i had sex for the first time it really hurt and it took me along time to relax enough to enjoy it but we are all diffrent it may not hurt you. I bleed just a little. I never fingerd my self so i have no clue?

It's different for evey woman. SOme have thicker hymens than others. And some have damaged their hymen through normal activities. For me it didn't hurt, it was just a bit uncomfortable and didn't bleed much, just a few spots.

I, personally, got my cherry popped 2 years ago and let me tell you form my own experience--It hurt like helll. I still remeber every bit of the pain. My girlfirends had told me that it would hurt for very long but it hurt me almost the whole time. When it was over, there was blood all over my partener's boxers and my sheets were saturated. I ended up having to wash every blanket on my bed and even flip my mattress. But the second time was better and the pain all but melted away.

ok me and by boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and we are still waiting to have sex. but today we kinda experamented but we didn't go all the way he just was inside me for a second then pulled out. I don't know is that considered sex??? before this relationship I was dateing a guy who was very pushy and kinda abusive in the way that I said no and he wouldn't listen and he fingered me and I wasn't wet...trust me it hurt and I definatly got away from him as fast as I could because he was a jerk. it kinda ruined me in a way but I never have bled and when me and my boyfriend do stuff its great but do you think that my cherry could already be popped...I don't know I really think I just need someone to help me with all of this...it is really confusing I hope I made since

thank you charluvsmike you are great haha. thats the answer i was looking for were 16 so idk if thats 2 early but we know were going to be together for a long time and we have never had a fight or anything so i think its time. but i'm not sure.

THE FIRST TIME I HAD SEX I DIDNT GET MY CHERRY POPPED
I THINK I POPPED MY CHERRY WITH TAMPONS because I BEEN USIN THEM SINCE I WUH'sz LIKE 10 OR 11
EITHER THAT OR I DIDNT HAVE ONE
LOL
BUT I DUNNO AND I GUESS I NEVR WILL

I HAD SEX when I WUH'sz 13 YEARS OLD
AND IT DIDNT HURT ME because I GUESS TAMPONS LOOSEND ME UP
LOL
I'sz THAT POSSIBLE??

for me gettin ma cherry poped didnt hurt it really felt good maybe its only becuz ima freak and i can handle anything and everything!! And i dont finger myself i just have otha nii99az do dat for me lolz but no it dont hurt

It really hurt me , i didnt realise what had happend til when i went home. I guess some of us are lucky n it doesnt hurt n sum of us are unlucky lyk me lol :] x

woah... I found this site like 3 hours ago and I learnt a lot, like how to give a lap dance, how to tell if im infected and that you dont bleed a lot when you have sex for the first time. and ya I'd say girls start fingering around 12 or older.

oooh. finqerinq is *AWESOME*[note the stars around the word AWESOME]
haha;but when I do it its qrrreat b/c I've been horseback ridin since I was 6 and when I was just 12 my hymen boke OOOH BUDDDYYY but yeahh didnt really hurt for me; just a sliqht uneasyness occured. but I dont have sex yet SXE
wooo hope this helps; haha just wanted to tell MY story thouqh
LOVEEE YA PEEPSZ
KEEEP IT GANGSTA =]

im really confused...!!!
I havnt bled yet or gotten fingered
but im scared that what if I bleed,
then blood is all over his hand?!?!!
im going to be soo embarassed
do guys feel grossed out when they get our blood on them??
what shoudd I do?

I was watching this show on tv and they said that babies masterbuate!! O_O

im 21 years old I always finger myself and experience new things down there your supposed to its your body everybody needs to know there own body im actually studyin to be a gyno... every girl doesnt always have to bleed, it just comes natural, it all depends on how tight you are aswell. I have been havin sex with my partner for 5 years I did bleed the first time but only specks of blood appeared some girls can bleed really bad some girls dont bleed at all, you just need to relax, it wont hurt as much either if you relax if you tense up then it will hurt but if you relax your body and your stomach muscles you should be ok I didn't and it hurt and it took me forever to actually get used to relaxing it used to hurt me all the time that I used to stop and my parnter appreciated it god knows why but yea then I learnt to relax and now I love it it takes a while to get used to trust me.
hope this helps some of you
and remember girls always make sure they wear a condom NO EXCUSES be safe...

It all depends, if your partner's size is way bigger than you then it will hurt more, but key point is the more you relax, the less pain you will feel. Important thing is you must be wet and turned on, and let yourself control the penetration at your pace, so you can learn to stretch. Some women have vaginismus(the muscle contract itself, so the vagina is closed, causing penetration to be very painful), its normal about 30% of women have vaginismus when the first time they have sex. It's not the women's fault it is the brain's automatic reaction. You will know whether you have vaginismus or not only when you first try out. Usually this can be overcame by the woman herself try fingering. Start by one finger, then 2, then 3, or you can use other objects.

How much blood varies too. If penetration happened fully, or partly, or whether the hymen/ cheryy torn bit by bit or altogether, or the hymen is just too strong it doesnt tear. It all depends. No specific way, each women and men is different. You just have to be patience, communicate and love each other so you wont feel its a wastefull experience.

Usually (depends) the first 10 times will still hurt, and after that you will realise it will get better and better. Just relax and enjoy and dont compare yourself with others.

it doesn't hurt at all. people are just babies. after I had sex for the first time I was like is that it?!??!?!

when I got my cherry popped it didnt hurt at all like most people think but there is many different ways to and most people dont know when they are popped

okay, here's a weird question!, HOW THE HELL DO GIRLS FINGER THEMSELVES?!!!
and I've never been fingered and I've never had sex! and I don't even know how to finger myself!!
but once it was really burning me down there, and I went to the bathroom to see whats going' on, and I was bleeding! it kept burning for a couple of hours, then I went to the bathroom again, and it stopped burning me and the blud stopped, what was all this?!!! is it normal? is it my period? 2 weeks after this, I got my period!

If you have questions it's best to post them as a new question - no one is really going to see your questions in an answer to a question from so long ago!

It appears that many if not most people are under the impression that the hymen is located within the vagina. It is part of the vulva, external genital organs. It is located outside the vagina. The hymen is a layer of tissue that partially conceals the vaginal orifice of some girls and women. The hymen is also referred to as a girl's cherry or maidenhead. Learn more: http://the-clitoris.com/n_html/hymen.htm

to anna_13 - A girl fingering herself is simply a girl using her fingers to masturbate. The bleeding you experienced may have been your hymeneal tissues torn or stretched by sports of just general hygiene.

to rl4ever -It's normal but if it persists for another week then you should see a doctor, you might have an infection.

sikashimmer, thanks for your advice

sikashimmer, I think you were right, cause I play LOTS OF SPORTS!! and at home I NEVER lay down in the livingroom or sit and watch TV! I'm always helping mom in the kitchen after lunch, and in the morning I make breakfast with her, and if she has to go buy groceries I take care of my little brother! cause if I don't he'd go crazy and mess up my room!! I just LOVE working!