How do you finger yourself?

Well I want to finger myself but I don't really know how. What should I use, and will it hurt?

it depends on how you finger yourself. for starters do it nice and slow in the begining

Its normal, just do what feels the best to it.

Well...fingering yourself is pretty easy...just rub on your clit first.(the upper part of your lips) till it tingles...and when you start enjoying it stick a finger in yourself or maybe two while still rubbing your clit...go faster and faster...and ater a few times you'll c*m Enjoy!!

Okay, a male perspective:

I shouldn't be in this thread, but here you go anyway... All women are a little different in what they want down there. Some are oversensitive, some need extreme contact (including nipples, probing, rubbing, etc.), and some are just too uncomfortable with this process to enjoy it (which should be overcome if possible to allow themself to feel pleasure without a man to 'do it' to them which is good for other parts of the psyche as well). One thing that is pretty universal is the clitoris, but how is the real question. Repetitious movement starting very slow and indirectly is usually a good way to start . Rub the outside of the labia in slow circles around the clitoris until there is sufficient moisture to apply the fingers directly to the clitoris. Orgasms come in all different sizes and so don't expect to be racked with mind-blowing waves of endorphins or extreme soaking from the vulva every single time. The process should be about exploration and learning your body. So find a nice quiet setting where you can have some privacy and go to town. Good Luck.

First of all make sure you're alone and comfortable. Strip naked and go take a shower, explore your body, touch yourself to see what you like and where. If you want to let your mind wander and fantasise, go ahead. Watch how your body changes as you touch yourself - I'm not talking about going straight for the jackpot, explore your WHOLE body! When you're done in the shower go get comfortable somewhere with a hand mirror and look at yourself, all over and when you're ready, look at your genitals. Explore yourself and watch how you respond, go with the flow, don't do things that don't feel good and do the things that do. Don't set a deadline or start it with the sole intention of orgasming, it might not happen but if it doesn't so what...it will one day! You've got to learn what works for you, what stimulates your body AND mind. And once you've worked that out you'll be able to pleasure yourself without fear or confusion and better still you'll be able to teach your partner how as well!

And as for Cuatis...mas*urbat*on isn't wrong or gross and is a perfectly normal, natural expression of oneself. I suggest you learn a bit about your body as well, you can't expect any partner to ever know how to please you sexually, if you don't know yourself now can you!

First. Are you a girl? I you are, do you mas*urba*e? Cause this has something to do with it. Okay, you get 1 or more fingers and stick them into your vag*na. Or if you are not compfortable with that, just rub or massage your clint. Then work your way into the vag*na. Have Fun!

Fingering yourself is actually pretty fun.Just become relaxed and don't worry about what you are doing.Touch your clit alittle bit then go inside yourself with one fingure then more.start rubbing your clit really really hard and fast.you'll c*m in less than a min.

rub and rub your clit start off slow and than fast..it also helps if you think of someone..and after 30 sec or more you will c*m..and than after that you should be wet neough to slide in a finger or more..but take it slowly enjoy urself...do it for all the right things

omg I dunnt really know how I juss do it how pplz say and damn it feels great!!!

your sick if your letting your dog lick your c*nt

hahaha

I don't know but I want to know

if you have your period you can get pregnant little girl, and you shouldn't be having sex with a 9 year old, your probably in grade 7 and he is grade 3 or 4, your both really to young to be having sex. it is alright to m*sturbate, and don't let your dog lick you thats so amazingly sick, you have to look at your dog every day, that would be weird.

haha yup you freak

I agree with that other peron you still can get pregnet

I'm 12 I Use An Old Brush And OMG Dose It Feel Good !

stick a pencil up your c**t.(the part of the eraser)

play w/ your self for a little while then when your wet stick 1or2 fingers up your hole if you dont want to use your fingers use a rounded brush handle plesure your self for a while and then u'll c*m and omg it feels so so good

Hey, find a pen or 2 and clean them. pu the end of the pen in [not where you write with]. You go further, faster and harder and it is the best experience you feel, im 13 too, I first orgasmed over Richard Hammond and its amazin. You feel like he's doing you hard!! oh and I ejaculated on my tv and carpet lol.

Wahahahah! Cant stop laughin, F**k!n let the dog lick her Puss! wahahah,, hey' girl don't you know that Dog's saliva has many kinds of bacteria? though it heals wounds it's still carrying bad bacteria ones and it may cause you yeast infection, NOW, do not start F**k!n your dog,,LOL--maybe she's a B!*ch afterall then,,wahahahhaahhaha

It's NORMAL to mas*urba*e (exploring youself would be fun) just dont abuse it OK!
-I was like the other girls before and always feels uncomfortable talkin thing like that but then I got curious
at first if you dont feel like doing it but you want to find out badly what to do is:
-Tap your vigina till you feel the stimulation
-insert your mid finger and rub it on your clit
-if a men's pen!s is hardening so is women's
-you will feel better once it's starts to release fluid insde
(Try to do it while you're lyin on the floor, Bend a little while doing it ,it's better)
You can play with your n!pp£3 while doing it, wet and rub your nip and THERE you GO

I hear some people use like tampon applicators and such.
what ever works for you.

I hear some people use like tampon applicators and such.
what ever works for you.

depends how ya finger yourself.
Most of the time it doesnt hurt

Put a wii remote control up there and Super Mario Party

I normally just stick two in my puss, then bend them... it feels SO F*cking good!!!
and... I've used a hairbrush handle... that felt better...
it all depends on what you can handle...

and I want to try a vibrating thing, but I dont have any... =/ anyone have any ideas??

whoever posted the dog thing is gross

start by rubbing your clit then put a finger or two in and god it feels so f cking good then if you want stick your whole fist in

I finger miself all the time. I also let my dog lick my c**t. I feels sooo good. I also stick my fist up their

I am only 13 years old and I really want to have sex I finger myself a lot but it doesnt quite satisfy me. I dont have a boyfriend and no one seems intrested. I am pretty but no one wants mw. I dont know what to do but I no that I want to have sex...
PLEASE HELP ME!!!???!!!

Naw it wont wont. It feek good actually. Pretty much all you use is your finger/hand

How do you shove your whole fist up??

Its very actually fun sexy and easy,

ok

get naked and wet and messy , and bath/shower is the best. then

get your finger massage your clit then slide your finger gentley slowely up into your vag*na. once its in, make sure that your comfy not in pain so you can do it faster and massage in the whole. yummy

to fist your seft rub your cl*t until you c*m and then put in 1 finger and then 2 then 3 etc. until you can get your whole hand up there and then push it in really deep. I feels great!

I sometimes use my toothbrsh

your waaaccc!!!
gaaayyy!!!

I don't finger your self.wait you find someone who loves you for u.

Um... the poor puppy... who the eff would do that. The dog is probulay still throwing up

Um... the poor puppy... who the eff would do that. The dog is probulay still throwing up

ok:S no offence buh your a freak looneytick! why on earth would you finger ursel!!!
GROSSS !!! I hink im going to b sick!!!

NO1 NO1 THATS A girl SHOULD FINGER DEMSELVES DIMWICK!

If you send me your e-mail I'll tell you everything you want to know

for me fingering myself is better because you can do what you want to do! a guy does whatever he would do with his d*ck. doing it yourself you can put the 'd*ck' where YOU want to!I just use my finger and put wherever feels good! or I just rub if idon't feel like taking the time!
Have fun little one! because I've been doing it for years and havn't told a soul!(except everyone who reads this!)yikes!
well anywayz, Luv ya hun!

isnt fingering youself wrong? some people think that makes you lonely

hi.. im wondering if anyone could help me?!
When I mas*urba*e.. I tend to stick with rubbing around the clitoris, although I do insert fingers every once in a while. Usually after rubbing I feel a great sensation, although I dont always get fluids running, and the sensation only usually lasts up to ten seconds, am I actually having a full org**m? or is it just the lead-up. I'd really appreiciate some help (or some tips on how to improve it/make it last longer), thanks
xxx

I can't orgasim when I finger myself. And I'm 15 I can't by any toy to use have any suggestions?

get a squiggly pen that vibrates. no one will suspect anything, and it is the most incredible feeling in the world!!

why dont you just have sex? it feels way better than just two fingers

put your finger in there and go up and down

love rere666

peraonally tie each foot to a bed post but before get an electric tooth brush and stickit up there it fells so good

hahaha...have a doggie lick your pu**y?? omg... never tried that, never heard of that, and NEVER GUNNA TRY THAT!! as for the whole fist in your pu**y?? wow... never tried that before...how do you do that? and the toothbrush...ummm...think im gunna try that =) as for me normally pleasuring myself, I normally take a bit of lube and rub it abainst my cl*t, and when I'm ready for it... I reach for the g-spot (upper wall of your pu**y - feels like a coin) stick two fingers in there... make 'come here motions' and my oh my it feel GREAT!!

off to try the tooth brush =)

I just stick my fingers up my croche
it doesnt hurt,it feels good

it stupid to do that why dont you get a guy to stick is d*ck in you it feels better trust me

I totally agree. mas*erb*ting and fingering and the urge to have sex is perfectly normal because im 13.I agree that having your dog lick it is just plain a** nasty though it does feel good because they lick my hand and all that and I can imagine that feeling on my pu**y.
to be honest with you, Do Not stick a pen er pencil. that sh*t is nasty, its just as bad as the dog thing. finger your self if you want, I do that sometimes, or mas*erba*e. but the one that I do most of the time that feels the BEST is sticking the corner of a pillow up my pu**y. it feels sooo great. if you just start rubbing it around and the go deeper and deeper.but have a mirror in your other hand and be relaxedd lie flat on your bed, look into the mirror and stick watever you want to stick up there. but you should reallly try the pillow idea, its amazing

and no you cant get pregnant, you can only get pregnant if a guy does it to you and there it sperm on his hand. but that is possible.

Dont do it, have someone else do it for you

I call my best friend, tell her to come have a beer w me. she gets tipsy & sticks her tounge up my genitals.
its effing sexy.
I highly reccomend it!!!
oh and for that girl with the dog,
right on ; you egg me up baby.
more advice :
jump rope.
my personal favorite,
well gotta jet.
my friends coming over ;]

I mas*urba*e myself by rubbing my clitoris...but the best I use are the electric toothbrush or the body masage machine its perfect than to have sex...

Im so horny.

ok well where do you stick your finger is it in the hole that ree comes out of or is it the one in the middle?

hahaha. ya I came on here asking myself the same question lol. I do the usual finger stuff, and think about my drop dead sexy boyfriend (BIG TURN ON)... I love him sooo much... I just suck at pleasuring him... can anyone help me?

whats the difference betwwen mas*urbat*ng and fingering yourself?

I fingered myself for the first time a few days ago. im 16 and I wasnt exactly sure what to do. So I researched at I just did what everyone else said...

first rub your clit slowly then get faster and faster
and you'll c*m and it feels soo good!!
But I guess everyone is different in how they do it.

I don't know if u'd consider this fingering, but I text a blank msg to a non-exsistant number (555-555-5555) (so it comes back to me) I make sure I have it on virbate & I send that msg!!! at first I had to find postions that made it work, but it vibrate on your vag*na. omg. best thing !!!

any tips on making your boobs feel good?

the people looking for the vibrations, you want to get yourself an electric razor, take of the blade and stick it up there, nicest feeling ever, and having a razor is completely normal...have fun!

if you want do what I do take a bath get the end without a razor lean the razor on the tub put your you no under water start spinnin it you will feel like you did it.

I'm so horny but I don't know how to pleasure myself can you give me pointers

trust me get a guy to do it feels SOOO sooo much better then fantsising.!!!xx

if you have a bath tub putting your legs up and letting the water go on your vag*na it feels great, what is even better is when your in a hot tub and you have the jet sitting on that and letting it go on and around your vag*na feels amazing!! it gives me the best orgasim ever!