Do guys ever call girls?

This guy I just met (because he works next to my job) I asked him to hangout and he said yea ill give you my number. and I asked when should I call you and he said tonight. So I called him and he was surprised I actually kept my word. So we hungout and...

went to his house. Just as friends. We talked for a few hours. We relized we were really different. he smoked a little, drank, and had sex with every girl he dated. I on the other hand am the TOTAL opposite of that. He made fun of me a little saying I was such a good girl. After talking more and just randomly started kissing my neck. I was like what are you doing and he said I cant help it. So then he started kissing me and we made out for a little. Afterward we talked more and I left. Before I left he kissed me on the cheek. I said when am I going to see you again and he said 'Thats up to you'. Okay so my question is whats that suppose to mean?? why did he say that why cant he just call?? Also what do you think of him just randomly kissing me? Im confused please help.

That means he wants to see you again if you do. So just give him a call already!

u should defentley call him
he for sure wants to hang out with u

i think that u should call him, but i also think that u should be careful of him because like u said he said he had sex with every girl he went out with so just becareful he might have stds
or he might just use u so keep ur guards up

You just met him as you said. So, unless a guy has love at first sight for you (which is rare) , i think his feelings is just casual.

And then you know he's a guy who made sex with every girl he meets, so his kissing you is what u can expect as you are the one going to his place and you are the one asking him out first. lol, girl ...do u really like him? its hard to change people.

I don't know that he really likes you or not. I believe he is testing you to see you if you will go all the way w/him. That's why he said it's up to you! As you told him you were completely opposite than the girls he usuallly dated. Just take your time, don't have to jump in to bed w/him just because he does!!!

Thanks for the advice! This kid is going away to college in one week. So yeah im never really going to talk to him agian. I just wanted to hangout with him cuz im bored. I dont want a relationship i just wanna friend. But if he says You can decide when you want to see me again ... what does that mean? DOes he not wanna hangout ? why do i have to decide.

Okay, this guy isn't obviously looking for a serious relationship. I am like you all good and everything but never let a guy take advantage of you that way. If you he has your number and likes you he would call you. Don't be the dude in this little relationship! he's the one who has balls not you. lol! So,what if you are a good girl...it's better than having so many dudes being with you and sharing your stuff that's suppose to be for that one person you really love not for the whole community LOL! Most guys love to have fun with girls especially under 25. So, it's rare to see a guy be serious under 25...but who knows there's some who are very mature..it takes time.. to find the right one..

I think that you just met him and you said that you not a like and your a good girl, you should date someone else because he just wants to have sex with you and he was trying to persuade you to have sex with him by starting to kiss you and he was trying to get you in the mood but I think that your worth having some one to hang out with and be your friend do not be with a guy who just wants to have sex with you. You want a guy who wants to be with you and respects you and is a good boy, you will be more satisfied if you do that because you will not have to try and change this guy. In pulse you want someone who will think that your that special person and have value you in every part of your relationship not just the sex part.

and a guy who really thinks that your worth it will call you and go out of his way to do anything for you.. But where just talking about how you where looking for guys who are not jerks. one way to find guys that are not jerks is by not rushing in to thing and getting to know them..

Thanks so much snow white and blessed vocals you give great advice!! :-)

He likes you and he wants you to make a choice but if you see him a agian i can alomost garnentee that you will have s*x!! Beacause he said he has s*x with every girl her dates!Just call him if your ready for a guy like that! And that your confortable with a drinker, smoker and a s*x acholic!!

Thanks Rolly blessed was right... and Aly, I don't think that's her type lol...she's a good sweet girl lol! but Aly you were right about if she sees him again he will try something that she won't like probably..