Baby Daddy # 2

So I’m 21 years old. I have a littlegirl who is turning two on the twelve of this month. I just found out last friday that I’m expecting another baby (five weeks along so far) . I’m scared. Honestly I have a hard enough time with just the two year old, how am I going to handle a 2 1/2 + newborn? My daughter’s dad does not help me what so ever. FRUSTRATING! and my boyfriend now hates him because he doesnt do anything to help us. My boyfriend is very excited. He is 27 and also has a two year old daughter of his own. I am not worried about him leaving and not helping like my daughter’s dad did. I’ m just worried b/c he is in a little bit of trouble rite now over somethings that were not his fault. I dont want him to get locked up durring my pregnancy and I definently want him to be there for the delivery / when I bring the new baby home. I told him he midaswell go and sit his time out now while I’m only 5 weeks , but he says if they try to get him for anything else and he ends up getting more time its going to be harder b/c then he’ll miss the pregnancy AND the delivery. So he wants to wait it out as long as possible. I’m just scared. I know I’m keeping the baby b/c I cannot have an abortion (I’d feel horrible for the rest of my life /// same with adoption ) this is my baby so I’M TAKING CARE OF IT , not anyone else. I just dont want him to go… ughhh! what to do what to do…?

Answer #1

some people are just rude on here! but I just want you to know I will keep your family on my mind and pray for yall. I hope the father of this child will be there to see a beautifull baby being brought to the world! God Bless*

Answer #2

No offense to you, but ever heard of a thing called birth control?

and you should take your girl’s dad to court to at least get him to pay child support. Also there is nothing you CAN do if the authorities lock him up - but they’d have to have a good reason…if he didn’t do anything he wouldn’t be in trouble…sorry to say, but it sounds like he is lying to you.

And the best for him is to go do his time now..it’s probably illegal for him to “wait it out” and then things will get a lot worse. And why on earth would they “get him for anything else” if he isn’t guilty?

Answer #3

keep your legs closed

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